April 17, 2006

A delayed response

L: The world is sad, even the closest people don't get to know each other.
Me: (the immediate response) of course some people know each other. How about your parents?
L: Of course they love each other, but there is no way they can know each other.
Me: …

(My parents lived together for 25 years, and within that marriage, there were a lot of lies – well intended or just lies by nature, there were suspicions, and there were cheating. I found no way that I could construct a respond to that argument.)

But I looked at it again, and now I have an answer ready:

It is the desire wanting to know 'the others' drives you away from knowing anyone. It is the desire to create an identity that drives the others from knowing you. In the core, everybody is more or less the same: there is a thirst for striving for survival,there are fears of the unknowns – like darkness and death, and maybe a few other basic elements; all the others are constructed and changable hence they are unimportant. So that if you want to know others, you need to deconstruct yourself first, reduce the ego to the basic components, and then you can tell: your depression is others depression, so are your ambitions and happiness. So rather, there is a need to live simple than to live curiously about the so-called the others. You yourself is the others.

The girls were talking about marriage again last time after Easter feast. It's still something unimaginable for me and the majority on present. But my parents start to talk about it to me. Some marriages are to possess another person, and the others is helping one to enrich the living experiences. Before one more or less know what him/herself is about, it is very difficult to contribute to a relationship so it's gonna be like a battle over properties – that's my problem, but my parents dont see it this way.

Talking about the Double Life of Veronique

When Veronique finds another Veronique, it's not a miracle or coinstance, it's neccesity. That's why the film is so delicate. It raised a puzzle but the puzzle is answering itself…


The geeky world – digesting an afternoon reading the geeky stuffs

It's hard to distinguish myself from a geek:

This week I have received three warning letters from eBay concerning about my bad consuming behaviours – bidding without paying. Such emails reflect nothing but my craze of e-shopping. Apart from various fake eBay buyings, I have also done a lot of business with Amazon this week – a voice recorder and some few books. One of my secret admirers (or at least I'd like to think it this way) even sent me a book anonymously via Amazon. My life is half based on virtual spaces: I update my iTunes and MSN Messenger every two weeks, I use google everyday, check my hotmail ten times a day, most geekily I have a blog empire in which each blog doesn't make much sense. But then from what's written you can also tell that my geeky experiences are really confined with e-consumerism which is not too much distinctive from the traditional forms besides the fact that it is designed more to slackers like me.

Of course most of the geeky producers are not half as lazy as I am. They do some good things except from draining money from the Generation G (game/geek). Pam Omidyar, who happens to be the wife of eBay founder, is working on an interesting "'serious game' ": link called re-Mission, modelling a female fighter called Roxxi fighting against cancer cells. After the testing this month, they will send this game to several health centres free in the hope that young patients suffering from cancer would benefit from the game playing experience: gain some knowledge of how cancer cells work and confidence in fighting against it.

Technologies based on virtual spaces seem to have merged with real life solutions more and more. Apart from helping to fight cancer, we also see in-game advertisements booming; a good number of faithful game fans putting on costumes in the games and name such act as Cosplay – which gradually becomes a serious art; if a USB -compatible vibrator is invented cyber-sex can be as 'real' as sex in bed; so that someone suggest that our generation is no doubtedly a generation G, giving out some significant features to distinguish this peer from others, if any:

1. arrogance: heroism towards killing the bad to preserve the good
2. sociability: being alone at home with a connected computer is not 'alone'
3. coordination: 'visual processing dramatically increases with as little as 10 hours of gameplay'
4. flexibility: to win a game there is always several ways, same to real problem solution.
5. competitiveness
6. insubordination

But is there generation G? I have not gotten any concrete evidence yet, but people spending a lot of time on virtual seems to be concentrating in the city. It is at least more explainable like this: living in block apartment, the space distributed to each person on average is far from sufficient to feel free. So in order to chase that eternal desire for freedom virtual spaces become extension of real spaces. I think it's rather generation U (urbanisation) rather than generation G. :) Moreover, like other medias, the creation of virtual space does not change the core of the system – it is after all consumerism that is the bread feeding this whole internet/game industry, among which there are charities and NGOs like the Hope Lab who hosts re-Mission mentioned above. Generation G (or even generation U) is after all no difference from generation XYZs.

(information generated from the Wired magazine April 2006)

April 16, 2006

Go to see Northern Light in China

Writing about web page http://www.china.org.cn/market/dxinganl/406529.htm

I always though I could only go to places like Finland to see the northern light. Arogantly enough, I didn't realised that I could have done that ten years ago during my trip to the Northeastest province in China – Hei Longjiang. There is this little village of which name literally translated as 'North Pole Village' located in the north tip of mainland Chinese territory that you can observe Northern Light in the peak of summer (although it really depends on your luck if you can see it every year).

April 13, 2006





April 10, 2006

For those who are considering to become nuns…. :P

Writing about web page http://www.thubtenchodron.org/BuddhistNunsMonasticLife/buddhist_nuns_monastic_life.html

This is a good site containing a lot of informations, though it is a mainly Mahayana branch.


March 24, 2006

Killing her softly with this song

Piggy piggy swine swine….

ooo, this song kills me…

guess which one is it….

I assure you it's one of the easiest quiz…..

March 21, 2006

Some little reccomendation for the Piggy pig

I was listening to AccuRadio online today… and you know I am an incurable Brit-pop fan, so I revisited Unkle. I think you may like it tooŽ

It was an album I didn't like at the time it released, but appreciate a lot now. :)

March 19, 2006

Things I ate last night!

Loads of goat cheese, blue cheese, and nuts
patatas bravas
wild mushroom bruschetta
tomato with basil, and a mozarella made of buffalo cheese (something Italian called di fior).
a fruit parfait with fresh whipped cream, baileys, strawberries and kiwi!

It was such an exotic meal for me Thanks Chichi for inviting me over~~ xxxx

I'm on a diet to put on weight!!!!

March 17, 2006


Writing about web page http://pengzou.blogspot.com/2006/03/john.html

Utopia is where everybody could kiss everybody else no matter how they look, smell, speak. We are so far from it.

(The grrly thingies is renamed as Male Phobia, and it's updated)

March 14, 2006

The Chinese are patriotists, but that's fine!

Writing about web page http://www.guardian.co.uk/elsewhere/journalist/story/0,,1710989,00.html

Jonathan Watts gave the best account of China I've ever seen in the Guardian, and that comfort me a lot as being a Chinese. Below is some quotes I want to share:


"In Britain, you have to learn 2,000 years of history; we have 5,000. In Britain, you have to know the geography and famous figures in a country with 60 million people. Well, we are 1.3 billion, and half a continent. And you have a mere 26 characters; we have 7,000."
Given that studying the basics of Chinese identity is likely to take up so much of the curriculum, it is easier to understand why so many people here are so nationalistic: they simply do not have much time to study the outside world.

China vs. Japan

This is an illustration of my prejudices about the two languages, indeed about the two countries, which have become polarised in my mind: Japanese is classical, exquisitely refined and painfully polite; Chinese is romantic but rough edged and distinctly down to earth.

lol! May all the Chinese be as cuddly and fluffy as the panda bears!

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