All entries for Thursday 02 February 2006
February 02, 2006
For ages, we haven't met each other so tonight we decided to have dinner together in Browns (Pub and cafe) in Coventry.
Some people had lectures on the time when we wanted to meet at bus stop, so finally 6 (at first 5) people turned up. Rita, Emily, Zaid, Brian and Shogo…
We talked about a lot having good dishes in acceptable price. I updated our pictures in gallary….
I didn't remember what we talked all, but what I really remember is about the difference of idea of marriage. There are two people already married and the other not. So we can actually hear how the idea will be changing from 'before marriage' to 'after marriage'.
I don't still have any idea of my marriage and have never thought about it. Well, our discussion started when Emily said she wants to marry as soon as possible, then Zaid and Rita told her better not to do soon.
Only one thing I remember and was impressed was, before marriage and when they are boyfriend and girlfriend, they'd say 'Let's go out together', then in turn after marriage, it'll be 'Let's go out alone.'
I think it's quite interesting, for when before marriage, there's an idea that they are both separated so use 'together', but after marriage, they are already one, so use the way…...
Have never thought about it, but it's possible to be not so distante future, I think I've learned some about the marriage…..like it can be said a sort of compromise. That's why or not, most of people who've already married always tell the other who haven't that they'd better postpone the time of marriage. They say it's better enjoy the time in single, then finally marry…...um…....if only listen about this, marriage is not a romantic thing in life…....um…...
Well, when the time comes, each people will marry somebody…..Of course I don't have to think it seriously now….