Last night, I had an opportunity to influence my friend¡¦s thought but¡K
I found that interesting that Paul taught us to use statistical control chart analyzing the variations of being late so I shared with my friend when we were chatting. There are common causes and special causes that could affect us being late. However, special causes are unpredictable. So, we need to reduce the common causes which would affect our capability of being on time. Being on time also shows the respects to the lecturer, and the colleagues. It is about the attitude.
However, my friend argued that one of his friends always skips classes in a master programme. According to my friend, his friend just needs the degree and does not care about the classes. My friend thinks that not all classes will benefit students. While we are sitting in the class, his friend makes hundreds of pounds just by making some phone calls. He said that his friend could learn and write the essays by himself afterwards. If one could ¡§utilize¡¨ his/her time, why attending class on time or even attending class, according to him.
I told him that the example of his friend is ¡§special¡¨ (cause) whereas most full-time masters students intend to learn instead of making money.
Then he brought up cultural issues. He said that the 2 pm meeting in Brazil actually means starting at 3 pm. He went on, ¡§if you do not know their culture, what is the point of being on time?¡¨ Again, I told him that the example of Brazilian time practice is just one culture whereas we have hundreds of nationalities in the globe. If we say 2 pm, universal concept is exactly 2 pm, isn¡¦t it?
I tried to reason him that his friend and Brazilian culture are special cases and the key was people¡¦s attitude towards being on time at work, class or any meeting with friends. However, his conclusion was: I will attend classes on time but I do not care if my colleague is late because they have rights to utilize their time and we should respect other cultures.
I had an opportunity to influence my friend¡¦s thought but I failed.
What if I am the leader and he is my follower?
What is the relationship between leadership and followership?
I slept with two unsolved questions with me last night.
Coincidentally, the top two seminar topics we choose this morning were followership related. I am looking forward to explore the ways to influence their followers. Conversely, how to be a follower by other leaders is worthwhile discovering too. Unless we establish our own company, the leaders (e.g. line managers or project managers) also are led by other leaders (e.g. programme managers and top management team).
Areas of improvement: to influence people effectively