All 1 entries tagged Women
March 07, 2006
Writing about web page http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/4780992.stm
\*Carefully steps on thin ice, making sure to have enough time to make statement*
I'm not sure if it's the best idea to blog this during International Women's Week, but the BBC article confused me.
Ensure consent for sex, men told
Okay, that's the title, and until that point it made sense. Then it continues on no matter how drunk the woman is, as a man you must have had consent to have sex with her, otherwise you could later be convicted of rape.
– I assume the terms man and woman can be interchanged in some cases
"Hi, I noticed you around. Can I get you a drink?"
"Oh yes, please, a rum and coke would make my day!"
"Ooh, before you start drinking, can I ask you…"
"Would you consent in having sexual relations?"
"Ooh sorry, not now. Maybe later. Where's that drink?"
That probably won't work. But once the woman has been drinking, she will be in a state where she'll be less capacitated to make the decision. Then again, even if she consents earlier on, can't she deny it in court? Maybe a written consent – perhaps in electronic form – is the way forward?
I'm well aware of the severity of rape dates and the advantages made of people when they're drunk. But to set in stone such a blurry situation, and to blame the not so drunk person on beforehand sounds a bit too much like a freebee to me.
Isn't the worrying situation that people go out on their own – or without people they can trust – and get absolutely leathered?