October 18, 2008

Social Party

Subject: Social Birthday party on campus at Warwick in Conventry

Place: Billy's apartment where is a nice place for holding a party

Billy(leader-shareholder): He comes from Taiwan. We have met each other for more than three month.   He is 24 years old and I am 42 years old. What amazing unmber it is between to us. I love this boy because he is brilliant, attractive and talent. He is not only good at studying but also plays guitar, sings songs, speaks English and Japanese and covers me in everything which means I need him to give me a help. We are in different generation but we don't have the generation gap between us.

Natusru(customer): He is our new friend and 21 years old. He is a Japanese but his nationality is the Netherlands( Dutch ). He is a fresher of postgraduate and needs to get acquaint with new friends of Japanese who he speaks in Japanese and English fluently.

A group of Japanese girls(customers): Saori, Kazue, Satomi, and Junna are Billy's good friends. One of them is having a Birthday party. They want to invite their best friend to join Birthday party at Billy's place. They are also my good girls and almost in 20 years old around. They are from Japan being an exchange undergraduate in this year. We have a good relationship. They call me an Uncle. They love to enjoy having my Taiwanese cuisines and Taiwanese sense of humor. They respect me to be their elder member of a family.

Other friends in Birthday party(customers): They are from Tailand, China, Japan, and Taiwan.

Background: I heart one of the Japanese girl told to me that they have wanted to have a Birthday party at Billy's place when we met in the library. She knows that I am Billy's closely kindness uncle. If I support her idea about the place for Birthday party, Billy will listen to me that he would be generous to invite them to his place having a lot of fun in the party.(She is very clever!)

Case Study: I want Billy to be the host(leader-shareholder) in charge of this party and introduce his new friend-Natusru to his Japanese girl friends because Natusru has never had Japanese girl friends in the past years. The object that I wish Billy could make a good friend with Natusru and also let him feel he is not alone getting the chance to meet new Japanese girl friends and other friends on campus, actually he didn't have any Japanese friends around him before he was in Dutch. Especially, in his age. Holpfully he could make new Japanese friends on campus connecting with good relationship with them and Billy. The key point is that I wish Billy starts to know Natusru each other who comes from Dutch where is a nice country living with an international good friend, Natusru, who might be the best friendship and good for Billy's career in the future. On the other hand, a boy who can speak Japanese and English fluently. I think that is the best and easy way for Billy to involve in Japanese culture and groups. That's why I want Billy to hold this party for themselves creating a situation-"Win,Win,Win" in 3 wins. Now what will Billy plan to hold this Birthday party successfully?

Billy got his idea of the party coming out his mind and asked about these questions below:

1)That is Japanese girl's Birthday party. They even havn't known Natusru first and how could let him to join the Japanese girl's Birthday party. Is it impolite to the girl's Birthday party,right?

2)Japanese girls might not like Natusru. It might be odd to introduce Natusru to those girls and might be bad to Natusru. How come? I don't want to break my friendship between them because of a stranger Natusru.

I answered Billy's questions in my opinions following behind:

Have you thought of that we have spent more than 200 pounds in Birthday party with them once. We had drunk a lot of Champagne, Red wine, and Beer. We had ordered 12 luxurious delicious meals from Chinese restaurant. We had played the guitar and sung love songs to them. We had played the magician show to them for fun. We had dressed in nice dressing to join the party. We had prepared a bunch of flowers to be the gifts to them. What's new to them at this party now? Could you tell me...? Do you have something special gift to them...? It's a drinking party with best wishes in Birthday card and gifts again that I know....that's it?? Nothing further..??

Natusru can speak in Japanese and English fluently who will be the Japanese girl's idol. The girls would love leaning English with Japanese from him. What a lovely chance to the girls it is. Natusru's personal character will be easy to get along with them. (You don't have to worry about it.) He will be the surprise in their Birthday party and they will be happy to know Natusru. Also Natusru is very exciting about dating with Japanese girls and making a good friend with them. If you make it comes true to Natusru, how he will appreciate to your kindness to him. He won't forget how you are very generous and gentle sharing good friendship with him in this Birthday party. He will meet a lot of friends here. He will be the powerful guy and succeed in dealing with human relationship to them. (Trust me....He is a good boy...!! How do I know him? My inspiration tells me....that's true.) You will be his hero on his mind forever from now on. You will get the benefit of dating with Japanese girl friends better than before. Isn't it what you want? I know you also like Japanese girls very much.

On the other hand, How can you introduce Natusru to Japnaese girl without any uncomfortable feeling? You could say that he is uncle's good friend. Uncle would always love to get and share nice and funny thing with them. ( That's what they think of uncle and trust uncle that the benefits coming from uncle to them.) It would be a wonderful gift to celebrate Happy Birthday to them. Now, it's your turn to arrange a great party for your friends.

Billy did a great job(leadership):

He started to send a message to the representative of Japanese girls actively in the earlier time. He sincerely invited them to hold the Birthday party at his place when he heart uncle talked to him in this news of Birthday party. (How does the girls think of Billy?) He got a message with happy mood of having a Birthday party from girls. No sooner, We got an invitation from Japanese girls in our facebook group. They are very exciting and expecting about the Birthday party holding at Billy's apartment tonight. (Everything about the Birthday party is under control by Billy, the leader.) They will surprise at meeting a new friend-Natusru, the special and unique Japanese boy from Dutch, who is looking forward to making a good friend with Japanese girls. We will prepared the gift with best wishes for the girl's Birthday tonight. I truly believe it will be a successful and joyful party which they have never been before. Billy said to me yesterday morning that he felt I have guided him to success in holding a wonderful and different Birthday party. I am sure that he will do a good job. He is now different than I knew him three months ago. He is more self-confidence than I knew him before. He challenges himself to show his leadership style. That is what I want Billy to get "win-win-win" in 3 wins. Good boy....My lovely boy, Billy.


Girls invited me to come and join their happy Birthday party tonight. I will plan not to join the party with them. You might not know what a 42 years old guy hanging around with his next young generation looks like. But I know.....it very much. They'll have common language chatting with each other....I couldn't be the part of them actually, but I am delighted to have those lovely girls and boys caring about me. That's why I am so happy to live on campus without lonely. I wish they are having wounderful time at their age and enjoy their life on campus. They make me miss my sons, Jonney(14), Vincent(13) and Wayne(11). How I wish my sons could be the one like these International students who are so awesome, brilliant and excellent.


Happy Birthday to my good girl....Junna. Happy Birthday to you in 21 years old!

Happy Birthday.....Junna. Uncle gives my best wishes to you. Happy Birthday!!

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  1. Very interesting entry Ricky. Congratulations. I liked very much the way you organized it.

    20 Oct 2008, 17:11

  2. wow!! Ricky, very good story.
    To be honest, it’s very very long story, i forgot what u said above when i was reading at the end. haha!!
    btw, thank you for joining the dinner today.

    21 Oct 2008, 00:21

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