November 28, 2005

Friendships

I can only say I have been very lucky. I don't have that many friends but the few that I have are really precious to me.
I used to tell my friends everything but I guess after some bad experiences with friends, I no longer trust friends as much as I would like to. It is just my nature to share joy and keep my sorrows.
As for friends telling me stuffs, I normally won't bug them to tell me if they don't. But I would love of course to hear from them. And if I ever bug you to tell me stuffs, it is because I truly regard you as a close friend. Otherwise why would I be bothered.
Friends come and go in my life. Some more special than others. I have had so many close friends who enter my life briefly. I felt so sad when I had to part with them. There was even a point in my life that I thought perhaps I should not put so much into friendships because at the end of the day, it is the inevitable parting which pains my heart.
I told this to a friend I met last year and she told me something so beautiful. She said 'Perhaps it is God's way of telling you that everything in life is so impermanent.'
I also realised that God was there for me through my most painful moments in my life. He was always there in me,giving me strength.
I gave up on friends because I lost faith in them. But God just keep sending amazing friends into my life. As if He is asking me not to give up on frienships just because of nasty experiences.And I feel that indeed I am learning once more to embrace friendships and open my heart to trust friends just like before.
Friends are people who love you for the real you that you are.
I am grateful to be surrounded by these people who loves me just for the me that I am.

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  1. charlene

    well itulah manusia….

    maybe the parting is a way to tell u to cherish what u have… cos sometimes we'll only realize how important friends are to us only when they are not around…

    just like sadness is a way to tell u how happy u have been

    28 Nov 2005, 06:43

  2. charlene, i guess we never know how much we have until we lose them. good luck for your exams. miss all of you in ma po loads and loads…

    28 Nov 2005, 09:04

  3. True to say, we're growing up and all have different lives, different paths to choose. We change, we forget, we remember who our friends are, who we want to stay friends with.
    I hate saying forever friends coz it sounds corny.
    Let's just say I only hope ours lasts for a long long time.

    28 Nov 2005, 12:41

  4. friends for life Stella !
    its snowing!!! it always makes me so happy…

    28 Nov 2005, 12:44

  5. Celina

    hie PJ.

    true to wat u wrote, friends come and go but each leaving some footprints and memories trully etched into your mind.
    it's sad to part as enemies..or just lose touch with each other.

    i have had my fair share of friends…upsetting when good friends turn against each other..or friends dat head onto other paths.
    life passes by…we just try make the best out of it!

    so pei jie…
    cheer up as you always have me!! (haha..sounds so corny..)

    celina

    29 Nov 2005, 04:03

  6. charlene

    yo pei jie!! yup what u said is true…

    people only leanr to cherish when they have lost something…

    ya celina.. it's sad to part as enemies… especially for very very close friends….

    aiyoh.. gals.. be happy!!!
    so let's HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

    29 Nov 2005, 07:01

  7. hey Charlene and Celina!!
    cheesy but i have to say it… i miss u gals … even though we are all miles apart.. u both are always remembered in my prayers..
    can't wait till the next time we meet and we all go drink teh tarik at 'old place'...

    29 Nov 2005, 10:43


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