All entries for Friday 28 October 2005

How women can score points with men

This is a continuation of my previous post ..but this time from the other perspective. This content is also taken from "men are from mars & women are from venus" by John Gray.

• He makes a mistake and she doesn't say "I told u so" or offer advice. – 10 to 20 pts


• He disappoints her and she doesn't punish him. – 10 to 20 pts


• He gets lost while driving and she doesn't make a big deal out of it – 10 to 20 pts


• He gets lost and she sees the good in the situation and says "We would never have seen this beautiful sunset if we had taken the most direct route" – 20 to 30 pts


• He forgets to pick up something and she says "It's ok. Would you do it next time you are out?" – 10 to 20 pts

• He forgets it again and she says with trusting and patience "It's OK. Would you still get it?" 20 to 30 pts

• When she has hurt him and she understands his hurt, she apologises and gives him the love he needs – 10 to 40 pts

• She asks for his support and he says no and she is not hurt by his rejection but trusts that he would if he could. She does not reject him or disapprove of him. – 10 to 20 pts

• When he apologises for a mistake and she receives it with loving acceptance and forgiveness. The bigger the mistake he makes, the more points he gives – 10 to 50 pts

• When he asks her to do something she says Yes or No without giving a list of reasons for either action. And she remains in a good mood. – 1 to 10 pts

• When he wants to make up after a fight and starts doing little things for her and she starts appreciating him again. – 10 to 30 pts

• She is happy to see him when he gets home. 10 to 20 pts

• She feels disapproving and instead of getting into an argument, she goes to another room and privately gets back to normal and then explains it to him in a loving manner – 10 to 20 pts

• She really enjoys having sex with him – 10 to 40 pts

• She is tactful, graceful and loving in expressing her dislike or disappointment – without blaming, rejecting or being disapproving of him – 10 to 40 pts

• She doesn't give advice when he is driving or parking the car and then appreciates him for getting them there. – 10 to 20 pts

• She asks for his support rather than dwelling on things he has done wrong. – 10 to 20 pts

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