All 55 entries tagged Wisdom

人生没有如果

A good life is when you assume nothing, *do more, need less, smile often and realize how fortunate you are right now. *
好生活就是不瞎想，做得多，要得少，常微笑，意识到你现在是多么的幸运。

If you don’t wanna do it,you will find an excuse. If you wanna do it, you will find a way out.
你若不想做，会找到一个借口；你若想做，会找到一个方法。

Love is not finding someone to live with. It’s finding someone you can’t live without.
爱情，不是找个一起生活的人，而是找个没TA就没生活的人。

I wonder what goes through your mind when you hear my name.
我很想知道，当我的名字滑过你耳朵，你脑海中会闪现些什么。

The one who loves you the most is who would spend time staying with you.
世界上最爱你的人，就是舍得花时间陪你的人。

Some of us get dipped in flat,some in satin,some in gloss. But every once in a while you find someone who”s iridescent,and when you do,nothing will ever compare.
我们有些人平庸无为,有些人锦衣华服，有些人虚有其表，但偶尔你也会遇上一个光彩夺目的人，当你遇上TA，一切都无与伦比。

Why people will make the same mistake?The only reason is,the former one was not serious enough.
人为什么会犯下同样的错误？原因只有一个：前一次不够痛。

If you’re brave enough to say GOODBYE, life will reward you with a new HELLO.
只要你勇敢的说出再见，生活一定会赐予你一个新的开始！

The reason why you are tested is that she has no confidence in you.
之所以试探你，是因你没有给她信心。

Don’t give up,just be youself,cause life’s too short to be anybody else.
永远都不要放弃做自己，因为人生很短根本没时间模仿别人

If you understand the value of love and love you have given me I have to wait for the future.
只要你明白、珍惜爱与被爱，我愿意等待你给我的未来。

Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you.
耐心点，坚强点；总有一天，你承受过的疼痛会有助于你。

Oh, to be young, and to feel love’s keen sting.
年轻真好，还可以为爱情所伤。

You can’t stay in your corner of the forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.
你不能一直呆在自己的森林一隅，等着别人找到你，有时候你得自己走出去。

I need far more than only a bit of light. If you can not light me up entirely,then don’t come to me.
我需要的光亮不止一点点，若你不能完全照亮我，就干脆不要来招惹我。

What is in front of the strong are all roads,while there are all mountains in front of the weak.
强者面前都是路，弱者面前全是山。

Life is not if, only the consequences and results.
人生没有如果，只有后果和结果。

the road ahead is still a long way, you may cry, but must go on, must not stop.
前面的路还很远，你可能会哭，但是一定要走下去，一定不能停。

The heart is mine.But it is full of you. 心是我的， 可里面装的全是你。

I’m grateful for the dark night coming,no matter how failed I am today;a new day remains to wait for my exertion.
感谢黑夜的来临，我知道今天不论有多失败，全新的明天仍然等待我来证明自己。

We’re meant to lose the people we love. How else would we know how important they are to us?
我们注定要失去我们所爱的人，要不然我们怎么知道他们对我们有多么的重要。

You know why it’s hard to be happy? Because you find it hard to let go of the things that make you sad.
知道为什么你很难快乐么？因为你很难放下那些令你悲伤的事情。

Success is not coming only in the future. It is piled up at the moment you decide to do it.
成功不是将来才有的，而是从决定去做的那一刻起，持续累积而成。

Jiao Liu : 05 Jun 2012 22:39 |  Tags: Englishstudy Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

简单是件很幸福的事

Some habits, however, was to change.
有些习惯，无论如何都改不了。

When we were small, happiness was a simple thing. After we have grown up, simplicity is a very happy thing.
小时候，幸福是件很简单的事；长大后，简单是件很幸福的事。

I love you not for who you are, but for who I am with you.
我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。

I’ll never mind the past from now on, no matter how sorrowful or wonderful it was. Life comes and goes with nothing.
我从此再不提起过去，痛苦或幸福，生不带来，死不带去。

The last one, can not turn, do not turn, turn over the dirt will be lost in his eyes.
过去的一页，能不翻就不要翻了，翻落了灰尘会迷了双眼。

Being nice to someone you dislike doesn’t mean you’re a fake. It means you’re mature enough to tolerate your dislike towards them.
能够善待不太喜欢的人，并不代表你虚伪，而意味着你内心成熟到可以容纳这些不喜欢。

Every careless and inattentive person has his past being careful and attentive for someone.
哪个没心没肺的人，没有一段为某人掏心掏肺的曾经

We all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an unreachable dream and an unforgettable love.
我们都有一些说不出的秘密，挽不回的遗憾，触不到的梦想，忘不了的爱。

So what if we fall down? At least we are still young.
摔倒了又怎样，至少我们还年轻。

Well,as with anything,if you want to believe,you can find reasons to.
不论什么，要是你想相信，你就能找到相信它的理由。

If I can see you after a long year, how can I greet?
假如又遇见你，隔了悠长的岁月，我将如何致意？

Maybe the so-called happy ending is to have endless hope, never give up and move on.
也许所谓的幸福结局，就是抱着永不放弃的希望，继续前行。

I’m not ignoring something.So what if I care
有些事情不是我不在意，而是我在意了又能怎样。

Do you believe there is a kind of sentiment that will never be beaten by time.
你信不信有一种感情，一辈子都不会输给时间。

Jiao Liu : 05 Jun 2012 22:29 |  Tags: Englishstudy Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

遇见最美丽的惊喜

Commitment doesn’t mean sticking to a person when you don’t have any option, it means keeping a relation with someone even though you ve lots of options.
承诺，并不是你除了他别无选择，而是即使你拥有了整座森林，依然选择了他。

Life is a gift and don’t intend on wasting it,you never know what hand you’re going to get dealt next.
生命是一份礼物，不要浪费，你不会知道下一手牌是什么。

Dear you don’t need to be changed for one.If you want to become a better man,please for your own sake.
亲爱的，你不必为了谁而改变，如果要成为更好的人，请为了自己。

The reason why people give up so quickly is because they look at how far they still have to go, instead of how far they have come.
人们为什么轻言放弃？因为他们只是看到前方路途遥远，而忘记了身后的一路坚持。

If you begin thinking of me,remember that it was not me who went away but you who sent me away.
如果你开始想念我，记住了，不是我自己要走的，是你自己松手的。

Many years later,I finally forget it.Unintentaionally .
真正的遗忘是多年以后，不小心提及你，仿佛说着别人的故事。

The harder you try to forget,the deeper it carves in your memory.
你越努力去忘记的东西，就会在你的记忆越深刻地存在。

Where there is no struggle, there is no strength.
没有奋斗，就没有力量。

Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
每天出去走走，奇迹就在身边。

It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
决定我们一生的，不是我们的能力，而是我们的选择。

Love remained short,but the memory lasts long.
爱那么短，遗忘那么长。

Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
对自己承诺：我要强大到任何事情都无法破坏我内心的平和。

I always in the deepest despair, meet the most beautiful surprise.
我总在最深的绝望里，遇见最美丽的惊喜。

Love is not the strong vow but the simple accompany.
爱情不是轰轰烈烈的誓言，而是平平淡淡的陪伴。

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.
有人可以回到过去从头再来，但是每个人都可以从今天开始，创造一个全新的结局。

Life can’t always be like the one you want, but it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your life
人生不会总是如你所愿，但这不表示你就不能去享受人生。

We grow neither better nor worse as we grow old but more like ourselves.
随着年龄的增长，我们并不变得更好也不变得更坏，而是变得更象我们自己。

What a man shows off is what he lacks in his heart.
一個人炫耀什么，说明內心缺少什么。

Jamal Malik：“come run with me” Latika: “run? where? life of what?”Jamal Malik：“love..”
贾马尔·马利克：“跟我一起跑吧。” 拉提卡：“跑？去哪？靠什么生活？” 贾马尔·马利克：“爱。”

When you particularly care for someone,he won’t care for you any more.How can’t you understand always?
当你特别在乎一个人的时候，他就不会在乎你了，你怎么就永远不懂？

Jiao Liu : 05 Jun 2012 22:17 |  Tags: Englishstudy Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

English Quotes

Rejoice while you are alive; enjoy the day; live life to the fullest; make the most of what you have. It is later than you think.

No man ever reached to excellence in any one art or profession without having passed through the slow and painful process of study and preparation

“Excellence is in the details. Give attention to the details and excellence will come.”

“Don’t think, just do.”

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

“Live life fully while you’re here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You’re going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don’t try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.”

“I believe life is constantly testing us for our level of commitment, and life’s greatest rewards are reserved for those who demonstrate a never-ending commitment to act until they achieve. This level of resolve can move mountains, but it must be constant and consistent. As simplistic as this may sound, it is still the common denominator separating those who live their dreams from those who live in regret.”

“If you can’t, you must. If you must, you can.”

“One day at a time—this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering.”

Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”

“It not knowing what to do, it’s doing what you know.”

“You are now at a crossroads. This is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don’t think about who you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become? Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully.”
“If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.”
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

Live this day as if it will be your last. Remember that you will only find ’’tomorrow’’ on the calendars of fools. Forget yesterday’s defeats and ignore the problems of tomorrow. This is it. Doomsday. All you have. Make it the best day of your year. The saddest words you can ever utter are, ’’If I had my life to live over again. ’’Take the baton, now. Run with it! This is your day! Beginning today, treat everyone you meet, friend or foe, loved one or stranger, as if they were going to be dead at midnight. Extend to each person, no matter how trivial the contact, all the care and kindness and understanding and love that you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again.”

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”

“Never neglect the little things. Never skimp on that extra effort, that additional few minutes, that soft word of praise or thanks, that delivery of the very best that you can do. It does not matter what others think, it is of prime importance, however, what you think about you. You can never do your best, which should always be your trademark, if you are cutting corners and shirking responsibilities. You are special. Act it. Never neglect the little things.”

“Count your blessings. Once you realize how valuable you are and how much you have going for you, the smiles will return, the sun will break out, the music will play, and you will finally be able to move forward the life that God intended for you with grace, strength, courage, and confidence.”

“Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later.”

Jiao Liu : 31 May 2012 15:28 |  Tags: Essays Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

Life Quotes

Life Quotes
Life quotes and sayings can give us a perspective on our own life that we may have not seen before. Life is something that we all get to experience. For some, it’s an exciting journey filled with wonder and joy. For others, it’s a long road with many setbacks and obstacles. No one really knows the meaning of life for sure but here are some quotes that will hopefully help you make yours the best experience possible. If you have any quotes about life you’d like to recommend, please add it down below. Enjoy!

“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”

_{Oprah Winfrey}

When things are going great, plenty of people will stand by you but it’s the people who will stand by you even when things aren’t going great who count. These are the people who will cheer you on and encouraging you during the toughest times. These are the types of people you want in your life.

“A day without a laugh is a wasted day.”

_{Charles Chaplin}

There are times to take life seriously but remember that if happiness is what you’re after, achieving it can be as easy as adding more laughter into your life.

“The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.”

_{Oprah Winfrey}

Success breeds success. Happiness breeds happiness. The more you are of what you want, the more of what you want will be a part of who you are.

“Let your life mean something. Become an inspiration to others so that they may try to do more and to become more than they are today.”

_{Thomas D. Willhite}

All the struggles you go through to obtain your most desired goal will be worth it when you realize your success doesn’t just stop with you. It can create a ripple effect that can positively change the lives of thousands or even millions.

“Life is uncharted territory. It reveals its story one moment at a time.”

_{Leo Buscaglia}

Life is not predetermined. Nothing is written in stone. You can make your life turn out however you want.

“Life is a game. In order to have a game, something has to be more important than something else. If what already is, is more important than what isn’t, the game is over. So, life is a game in which what isn’t, is more important than what is. Let the good times roll.”

_{Werner Erhard}

“A life of reaction is a life of slavery, intellectually and spiritually. One must fight for a life of action, not reaction.”

_{Rita Mae Brown}

Instead of waiting for life to happen to you and then reacting to it in a hectic manner, take control of it by being proactive.

“If people are good only because they fear punishment, and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.”

_Einstein

Do good because you feel it’s the right thing to do.

“Whether we’re prepared or not, life has a habit of thrusting situations upon us.”

_{Lucille Ball}

Prepare for the challenges that life will throw at you. It doesn’t matter if you’re ready for it or not, it’s coming. You could be a smart student who got a bad test score because you didn’t study but in the eyes of the grader, it doesn’t matter what your excuse is. What matters is your results.

“I am living dying, when I should be dying living.”

_{Kersti Bryan}

You can live to 100 years old and still not truly live a day in your life. Don’t be a walking corpse waiting to be buried. Grab life and embrace it. Do the things you’ve always wanted to do. Enjoy your life while you’ve still got it.

“Every second that you live you are never going to get back. You are never going to get to change what you said, didn’t say, did, or didn’t do. Live how you want to live. Act how you want to be remembered, because you never know how long or short you are going to be here.”

_{Emily Doberstein}

“Live in such a way that you would not be ashamed to sell your parrot to the town gossip.”

_{Will Rogers}

If you had live cameras on you 24/7, how would you live your life differently?

“If you live just for today, to make today the most successful, happy day of your life, I am sure that you will have an extraordinary life. A successful life is nothing more than a series of successful days.”

_Unknown

Experiencing a happy or successful life simply comes down to having happy or successful days so focus on what you can do today to create the life that you want.

“Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.”

_{Ashely Smith}

The life you experience will largely depend on what you notice and focus on. Whether good or bad, it’s up to you.

“We’re so busy watching out for what’s just ahead of us that we don’t take time to enjoy where we are.”

_{Calvin & Hobbes}

The present moment is all you have, all you can control, all you can really experience so learn to enjoy the now.

“Laugh at yourself and at life. Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity, but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain, cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective that seemingly terrible defeat and worry with laughter at your predicaments, thus freeing your mind to think clearly toward the solution that is certain to come. Never take yourself too seriously.”

_{Og Mandino}

“Love Life. Do Good. Live Well.”

_{Kevin Ngo}

Life is truly a gift, treasure it. Make a positive difference in the world, however small. Take care of yourself physically and financially so you have the energy and the means to enjoy our life and help those around you.

“Just because you are seventy is no excuse to give up and let others make your decisions for you. The fact that you are still alive is reason enough to believe that you are here for a purpose; and that purpose is to learn, to teach, and to GIVE.”

_{Thomas D. Willhite}

Until the day you die, live!

“No matter what age you are, or what your circumstances might be, you are special, and you still have something unique to offer. Your life, because of who you are, has meaning.”

_{Barbara De Angelis}

“There are two things to aim at in life; first to get what you want, and after that to enjoy it. Only the wisest of mankind has achieved the second.”

_{Logan Pearsall Smith}

Remember when you used to want the things you now have? Learn to be appreciate everything that is in your life. This doesn’t mean to be content with what you have. It just means to remember some of the things you now have in your life were once excited you.

“I have noticed that folks are generally about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

_{Abraham Lincoln}

Happiness is a choice that you make each and every day. If you’re unhappy right now, realize that you chose to feel this way.

“For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin… But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid.Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.”

_{Alfred Souza}

Don’t let life get in the way of getting the things you want. It’s easy to get caught up in the day to day errands of life and continue to put of your dreams so make an effort to stay focused on what you want.

“Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Appreciate your friends. Continue to learn. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.”

_{Mary Ann Radmacher}

“The difference between school and life? In school, you’re taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you’re given a test that teaches you a lesson.”

_{Tom Bodett}

There’s no better teacher than life. Try. Whether you fail or succeed, it will be an experience.

“The purpose of life is a life of purpose.”

_{Robert Byrne}

You have a choice of living an aimless life or living a purposeful life. You choose.

“Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.”

_{Eleanor Roosevelt}

Life can be scary at times. You can either hide in a dark corner and wait until time takes your life away or you can make the best of it while you’re still here.

“Whoever is happy will make others happy too. He who has courage and faith will never perish in misery.”

_{Anne Frank}

“Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it’s at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.”

_{Earl Nightingale}

“The best way to prepare for life is to begin to live.”

_{Elbert Hubbard}

Preparation is important but it can also paralyze you. Taking action alone can teach you a lot of things by giving you experience whether good or bad.

“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.”

_{Annie Dillard}

Your life experience is just an accumulation of your daily experiences. Want to create a more fulfilling life? Start by creating more fulfilling days.

“Live life fully while you’re here. Experience everything. Take care of yourself and your friends. Have fun, be crazy, be weird. Go out and screw up! You’re going to anyway, so you might as well enjoy the process. Take the opportunity to learn from your mistakes: find the cause of your problem and eliminate it. Don’t try to be perfect; just be an excellent example of being human.”

_{Anthony Robbins}

“Life is a succession of moments. To live each one is to succeed.”

_{Corita Kent}

Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint on it you can.

_{Danny Kaye}

Life is to be experienced. Put yourself out there. Do things you’ve never done. Live a life where at the end, you will have no regrets.

“Difficult times have helped me to understand better than before, how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way, and that so many things that one goes worrying about are of no importance whatsoever.”

_{Isak Dinesen}

Most of the things people worry about are things that won’t even matter to them a few months from now.

“Expecting life to treat you well because you are a good person is like expecting an angry bull not to charge because you are a vegetarian.”

_{Shari R. Barr}

The only thing that you can really expect out of life is that no matter what kind of person you are, there will be good times and there will be bad times.

“If you want to make life easy, make it hard.

_{Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe}

When you are a type of person who is on top of things, who does what needs to be done, who puts in the hard work, who avoids taking the easy way out, you create a strong mentality, one that can withstand just about any blow life can throw at you. If you aren’t that type of person, even the slightness nudge from life can be enough to knock you over.

“These then are my last words to you. Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.”

_{William James}

In dwelling, live close to the ground.In thinking, keep to the simple.In conflict, be fair and generous.In governing, don’t try to control.In work, do what you enjoy.In family life, be completely present.

_Lao-tzu

“Some days life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we’re here we should dance.”

_Unknown

“One day at a time – this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past, for it is gone: and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful that it will be worth remembering.”

_{Ida Scott Taylor}

“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.”

_{Abraham Lincoln}

Life isn’t about how long you live, life is about how much fun you have while you’re living.

“Learn from the past, live For today, work for the future.”

_{Stefan Rudolph}

“Love life and life will love you back. Love people and they will love you back”.

_{Arthur Rubinstein}

What you put out comes back to you. If you want more good in your life, do more good.

Jiao Liu : 31 May 2012 15:16 |  Tags: Englishstudy Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

超越是结果

因为不满，你看到了自己的理想。
因为有了理想，存在的每一瞬间才会如此重要。
没有打不倒的对手，只有停下脚步的自己。
超越是结果，奔跑是过程。

Jiao Liu : 28 May 2012 19:59 |  Tags: Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

命运掌握在自己手里。

地上本文没有路。走的人多了，便有了路。路多了，就有了岔口。岔口多了有的人就迷失了方向。不同的人，走不同的路。走自己路，让别人去说吧，命运掌握在自己手里。

Jiao Liu : 05 Jan 2012 09:38 |  Tags: Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

控制脾气

一、畅所欲言。倾诉是消除不良情绪的好办法，有助于将不愉快的情绪和烦躁的心情释放出来。

　　二、给人机会。多交朋友，少结怨家，心境自然会变得平静。

　　三、追根溯源。形成不良情绪的原因是多方面的，需要找出原因，才能对症下药，从根本上解决心病。

　　四、互为谦让。懂得谦让，伙伴间才能长期友好地相处。

　　五、因人而异。不同类型的人对同一件事的反应可能不同。同样一句话，性格敏感的人会因此而勃然大怒，而有的人却能泰然处之。

　　六、暂时回避。如果矛盾双方僵持对峙，情绪正激烈之时，不妨暂时采取回避政策，待情绪平静后，再来解决问题。

　　七、助人为乐。助人是快乐之源。当我们给别人带来欢乐时，自己的心情也会非常舒畅，从而忘却了烦恼。因此，乐于助人，不但能获得珍贵的友谊，还能让自己的心情更好。

　　九、偶而屈服。俗话说：“能屈能伸大丈夫。”做大事的人为人处事都会从大处着眼，而不在小处过分计较。同伴交往也是这样，应求大同而存小异。

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五训言

【百年清华育才五训言】
1、靠得住（做人的金字招牌）；
2、有胸怀（能容人故能容天下）；
3、善合作（求同存异，单打独斗难成气候）；
4、心气高（志存高远，生气不如争气）；
5、善结缘（左右逢源方能事事顺达）。

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君子坦荡荡，小人长戚戚

谦卑生恩骄傲生怨

老子在两千年前就用非常智慧的形象比喻：“人之生也柔弱，其死也坚强。草木之生也柔脆，其死也枯槁。故坚强者死之徒， 柔弱者生之徒。”我们在现实中不难发现，有朝气，有希望，有生命的生物体的特点都是柔软灵活，适者生存。而没有生命的东西是僵硬的，死板的，顽固的。人的 脾气暴躁，易怒抱怨，自以为是，逞强好胜，吹毛求疵的结果往往是被“枪打出头鸟”。“软弱为立身之本，刚强是惹祸之胎”，古今中外都一样的道理。

“人在社会上 生存，要象水一样去适应社会，适应环境，适应身体。反其道而行之的结果只能是碰得头破血流。因为不难发现，这个世界上唯一能够改变的事情是自己，用改变自 己来适应那个不变的“道”，就可以大大减少痛苦。当然改变自己也是一个艰难困苦的过程，并不是人人可以做得到的事。而改变环境，改变别人却更如同天方夜 谭，是几乎不可能的。” 当然，如果自己真的有道理，要想改进一个已经存在的系统，也应当以理服人，以柔克刚，戒急用忍。

“虚心使人进 步，骄傲使人落后”。谦卑才能学习，才能产生 感恩、知足、顺服、和饶恕。骄傲产生自满、逆反、挑剔和怨恨。

当然“闻过则喜”是一种谦卑高尚的境界，“忠言逆耳利于行，良药苦口利于病”，虽然不是轻轻松松的，但人人经过努力都可以做到。

“三岁看小，七岁看老”，人的世界观成长和形成和童年、少年时期的生长教育环境关系极大。从小培养孩子的谦卑尊师美德这门必修课的重要性，再强调也不为过分。

吃亏生福贪婪生祸

“君子坦荡荡，小人小人长戚戚”，许多海纳百川的人，宰相肚里能撑船，不和那些小人、小事一般见识，做到“难得糊涂”，反倒活的潇洒超脱。因为是非公道在人心，吃一点小亏其实没有关系。在枝节小事上糊涂，在大是大非上不糊涂，做那些“聪明人”不做的“傻事”，是大智若愚的表现。不难发现，常常吃亏的人，其 实并没有吃亏，往往在其他方面得到更多的补偿。譬如加薪升迁，健康长寿，青史留名。所以，成就大事的人，“有容乃大”，没有一个是靠算计、嫉妒和诋毁别人 起家的。如果“吃小亏，占大便宜”不错，那么“得小便宜，吃大亏”也不错。如果我们真正理解“吃亏是福”的道理，也不难看到其另一面则是“贪婪是祸”。其 实，这都是天道。所以，帮助、原谅、饶恕别人是福，实际上是在更大程度上帮助、原谅、饶恕自己，也是祝福自己。这才是真正的大智慧。

爱人如己牛顿定理

“爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈。爱是不嫉妒，爱是不自夸，不张狂，不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。爱是永不止息。”

简 单归纳，世界上只有两种爱，一种是无私单向的爱，如母爱，父爱和更加常阔高深的神爱。那是无条件，不要求回报的爱。还有一种是互爱，那就是平等互相的爱。 对待朋友同事和上级，我们在社会上是应当追求的是互爱。人人都希望自己被爱，被宽容，被忍让，被给与，被祝福，对这一点大家没有异议。重要的是如果学会如 何去爱别人，宽容别人，忍让别人，为别人付出和祝福。如果自己一方面对别人充满了嫉妒，甚至盼望别人倒霉胜过盼望自己发财，另一方面又要求别人像自己的父 母一样爱我们自己，给予自己。这确实有点有欠公平，强盗逻辑了。

学过中学物理力学的人都知道有一个牛顿力学第三定律：“作用力和反作用力，大小相等，方向相反，作用在不同物体上。”

也 许牛顿先生可能还不曾想到，用他的力学定律来解释人际间的互爱和互恨也是天经地义，合情合理的。按照这个定律，当一个人向周围的人发出的信息是慈爱，那么 他得到的反馈也应当是慈爱。当一个人向周围的人发出的信息是嫉恨，那么他得到的反馈也应当是嫉恨。也就是说，如果我们希望得到周围每个人的慈爱、宽容、忍 让、饶恕、给予和祝福，那么就应当慈爱、宽容、忍让、饶恕、给予和祝福周围的每一个人。应当记住最起码的一条常识，慈爱的信息对自己心灵、身体、家庭和事 业发展有益，嫉恨的信息对自己的心灵、身体、家庭和事业发展有害。我们应当怎么做，不是非常清楚吗？

记得上世纪50-60年代曾经有一首歌其中提出一个口号“我爱人人，人人爱我”。非常有道理，我们不能忘记了一切基本道理。

有人会说，对有的人，我发出的是慈爱的信息，得到的却是嫉恨的回馈。怎么办？那也没有关系，继续对他（她）发出慈爱的信息，坚持下去，“精诚所至，金石为开”，一定会得到慈爱的回馈。人们都会记住并回报你的善意。那么，对于极个别恩将仇报的人，怎么办呢？

饶恕别人饶恕自己

耶稣说“你们饶恕人的过犯，你们的天父也必饶恕你们的过犯；你们不饶恕人的过犯，那么的天父也必不饶恕你们的过犯。”【马太6：14-15】

“人 非圣贤，岂能无错”。因此要首先学会宽恕别人的过错，这样别人才会宽恕我们自己的过错。我们自己也有很多缺点错误，为什么对别人的错误耿耿于怀呢。既然我 们愿意被人饶恕，那么首先应当学会饶恕别人的过错。另外，不宽恕别人的结果会使自己非常痛苦，甚至许多年都不能解脱，“拿别人的错误来惩罚自己”，又何苦 来着？

讲到宽恕，19年前震惊世界的卢刚事件是一个正反两面最好的例子。卢刚刚在他获得爱荷华大学太空物理博士学位的时刻，开枪射杀了 这所学校的3位教授、一位和他同时获得博士学位的中国留学生山林华，和学校的副校长安•柯莱瑞。卢刚一口气杀了那么多“仇人”，都是对他恩重如山的导师、 教授和学校领导。在他事前写给給媒体的一封信中，没有任何感恩，怜悯，宽容和饶恕，充满了对教授导师的不满，对同学进步的嫉妒和对学校管理高层的怨恨。

与 卢刚的自私仇恨心态和性格形成明显对照的是被卢刚枪杀那位副校长，名叫安•柯莱瑞的家人的慈爱和宽容。安是爱荷华大学最有权威的女性之一。很久以前，她的 父亲曾远涉重洋到中国传教，她成了出生在中国上海的美国人，所以她对中国人有特 殊的感情。她终身未婚，对待中国留学生就像对自己的孩子一样，无微不至地关照他们，爱护他们，每年的感恩节和圣诞节总是邀请中国学生到她家中做客。安的兄 弟们还在无比悲痛之时，以极大的爱心宣读了一封致卢刚家人的信（附件）。那封信里没有谴责，没有怨恨，没有报复，没有仇恨。反而，充满了宽恕，饶恕，怜悯，慈爱和祝福。

和圣经里的道理如出一撤，我们中国传统文化中也素有“以德报怨”的高尚品德。这些道理很好，做到却非常之难。因为我们 一般的教育是“以其人之道，还治其人之身。”因此我们应当大力宣传、学习、提倡这些正道及真理。一步步慢慢成为我们和我们子女的真知共识及精神财富。林肯 总统讲的好：“只有一个方法教导孩子走该走的路，这方法便是自己走这条路。”

我们应当继承我们祖先的华夏文化精华，学习各个民族各个国 家各个宗教的宽容和慈爱。我们的中国不仅仅要构建为一个经济大国和环保大国，更要构建为一个自立于世界民族之林的道德大国和礼仪大国。希望在世界各地的华 夏子孙共同负起我们的历史重任，逐步实现这一宏伟目标，使我们全球华人真正成为受到世界各国各族裔民众尊敬、尊爱、尊重的来自礼仪之邦的公民。

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与谁为邻

《与谁为邻》

和勤奋的人在一起，你不会懒惰；和积极的人在一起，你不会消沉；与智者同行，你会不同凡响；与高人为伍，你能登上巅峰。

科学家研究认为：“人是唯一能接受暗示的动物。”积极的暗示，会对人的情绪和生理状态产生良好的影响，激发人的内在潜能，发挥人的超常水平，使人进取，催人奋进。

远离消极的人吧！否则，他们会在不知不觉中偷走你的梦想，使你渐渐颓废，变得平庸。积极的人像太阳，照到哪里哪里亮；消极的人像月亮，初一十五不一样。态度决定一切。有什么态度，就有什么样的未来；

性格决定命运。有怎样的性格，就有怎样的人生。有人说，人生有三大幸运：上学时遇到好老师，工作时遇到一位好师傅，成家时遇到一个好伴侣。 有时他们一个甜美的笑容，一句温馨的问候，就能使你的人生与众不同，光彩照人。生活中最不幸的是：由于你身边缺乏积极进取的人，缺少远见卓识的人，使你的人生变得平平庸庸，黯然失色。有句话说得好，你是谁并不重要，重要的是你和谁在一起。

古有“孟母三迁”，足以说明和谁在一起的确很重要。本你很优秀，由于周围那些消极的人影响了你，使你缺乏向上的压力，丧失前进的动力而变得俗不可耐，如此平庸。

读好书，交高人，乃人生两大幸事，。人生的奥妙之处就在于与人相处，携手同行。送人玫瑰，手留余香，人生就是这样。

善于发现别人的优点，并把它转化成自己的长处，你就会成为聪明人；善于把握人生的机遇，并把它转化成自己的机遇，你就会成为优秀者。对他人的成功像对待自己的成功一样充满热情。

学最好的别人，做最好的自己。借人之智，成就自己，此乃成功之道。

和不一样的人在一起，就会有不一样的人生。

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静坐常思己过

保持距离，善待别人，以诚相见

做什么事要对自己有信心，也就是自信。不要因为别人说了什么，就不敢去做，不要活在别人的话语中，凡事先想后做，三思而后行，不可性急，要有耐心；

心胸宽广，无论你喜欢的同事（上司）或不喜欢的，见面都要打招呼，且面带笑容，要真诚。俗话说：伸手不打笑脸人，而且你的笑容还可以给别人带来愉快的心情，给自己带来好的人缘关系；

工作中，自己的事处理完后，看看周围的同事有没有要帮忙的事，或自己没事时帮同事倒杯水，拣一下办公桌；节日时，同事之间互相问候，可发消息，打电话……这样都可以更好的处理同事之间的关系；

不要把个人生活的情绪带到工作中，也不要把前一天工作中的不愉快带到第二天上班，更不要把自己在工作中的不愉快发泄到同事的身上。

闲谈莫论人非；静坐常思己过。
在和同事相处的过程中，始终以此为准则。相信你会和同事的关系相处得非常融洽。俗话说得好：病从口入，祸从口出。因此，上班时，尽量多做事少说话。这样做既可以让自己多积累工作经验；又可以让繁忙的工作冲去多余的时间，避免无聊时，闲谈别人的是非。即使在工作之外，亦从不对同事评头论足，但谁是谁非，心中自然明了。

多些宽容与理解。
如果同事之间多一些宽容和理解，同事关系也就不会那么难处了。

凡事想开一点。
在踏入社会之前我总觉得人与人之间相处该是真诚的、快乐的，踏入社会之后才发觉人与人之间相处也有头痛的时候。在与同事相处过程中，凡事都要想得开，心情自然就快乐。

与同事保持适当距离
其实很多同事是不适合成为朋友的。和同事之间保持一定的距离，才是最美的。退一步海阔天空。我觉得要想和同事相处愉快，秘诀还是那句老话，“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”。俗话说得好，伸手不打笑脸人，你用微笑对别人，再刁蛮的人即使第一次对你大喊大叫，也不好意思一而再再而三冲你发火呀。

对同事之间的相处之道，我的体会是，同事可以一同吃喝玩乐，不可谈任何实质问题，更不宜交心。因为说不定哪天你们的位置和关系会发生改变，到时有些往事造成的影响就很难说了。同事之间理应有互相帮助之谊，但同时又存在成为潜在竞争对手的可能，其间利害关系甚大，所以原则上知心朋友不宜是同事，如果有什么重要打算想征求意见的话，应该找非同事类朋友。我就是吃了一堑才长了一智的。

互相帮助润感情有时求助别人反而能表明你的信赖，融洽关系，加深感情。有时，你怕给人添麻烦，人家就以为你也很怕麻烦。当然，求助要讲究分寸，尽量不要使人家为难。

平衡关系无近疏同办公室有好几个人，相处中应尽量保持平衡，不要对某人特别亲近或特别疏远。

同事隐私不打听如果喜欢探听，即使什么目的也没有，人家也会忌你三分。爱探听人家私事，是一种不好的行为。

嘴上便宜占不得有人喜欢说别人的笑话，虽是玩笑，也绝不肯以自己吃亏而告终；有的喜欢争辩，有理没理都要争三分，给人的感觉是太好胜，锋芒太露，难以合作。

疑人之心不可有有些人警觉性很高，对同事也时时处于提防状态，一见人家议论，就疑心在说他；有些人喜欢把别人往坏处想。过于敏感其实是一种自我折磨，一种心理煎熬，同事间神经过于敏感的人，关系肯定搞不好。

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time

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The clock is running. Make the most of today. Time waits for no man. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why it is called the present.bq.

Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day.

Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course?

Each of us has such a bank. It’s name is TIME.

Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.

Every night it writes off as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose.

It carries over no balance. It allows no over draft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day.

If you fail to use the day’s deposits, the loss is yours. There is no drawing against “tomorrow.”

You must live in the present on today’s deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!

The clock is running!! Make the most of today.

To realise the value of one year, ask a student who failed a grade.
To realise the value of one month, ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.
To realise the value of one week, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realise the value of one hour, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
To realise the value of one minute, ask a person who just missed a train.
To realise the value of one second, ask someone who just avoided an accident.
To realise the value of one millisecond, ask the person who won a silver medal at the olympics.

Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with. And remember time waits for no one.

Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why its called the present.

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无题

留心你的语言，
语言影响行为，
行为形成习惯，
习惯构成性格，
性格注定一生

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今天你微笑了吗？

华联商厦微笑格言40句 :

1、微笑是最美丽的化妆。

2、微笑是沟通心灵的金桥。

3、微笑永远是顾客的阳光。

4、亲切的微笑是最好的推销。

5、微笑能感染每一个人，让我们的工作更加愉快。

6、愿我的每一个微笑都能给您带来一份轻松与快乐！

7、微笑是内心喜悦的情绪，是表示诚挚、友好和尊重的内心体现。

8、找到自己最好的微笑，并将它随时奉献给客人。

9、微笑很简单，意义却深远；大家一起笑，世界更温暖。

10、愿我的微笑像春风一样温暖着客人的心。

11、把我的微笑变成大家的快乐。

12、把微笑漾在脸上，把关爱蓄满心间。

13、笑容是支点，能力是杠杆，有这两样能撑起整个地球。

14、smile costs nothing ,but is everything.微笑不花费什么，却可以赢得一切。让我们用这世界上最简单、最美丽的语言赢得客人的信任，给工作注入活力，给同伴带来欢乐……

15、用我的真诚微笑留住每位客人。

16、微笑着面对生活，微笑着面对人生。

17、以微笑面对每一个人，你会觉得每一个人对你充满爱意。

18、微笑是世界上最美丽的语言。

19、常露笑容会给客人宾至如归的感觉！

20、西班牙人格的写照——微笑
一个微笑，花费很少，价值却很高，给的人幸福，收的人谢报。一个微笑，仅有几秒，而却留下的回忆，终生美好。没有人富，富到对它不需要，也没有人穷，穷到给不出一个微笑。有了它家庭充满幸福，有了它生意兴隆荣耀，它还是朋友间交流的暗号。它使劳累者疲劳顿消，它为失意者重燃希望的火苗。对悲伤者它有如太阳，要化解烦恼它是良药。

它既拿不来，也偷不去，它不出租也买不到，只有做礼品它才有效。人人都需要微笑，而没有人，比一个忘记微笑的人，对它更重要。应该笑口常开，因为我们无论是奉献还是得到，最好的礼物都是微笑。如果匆忙中，我忘记对你微笑，请原谅我，而善良淳厚的你，能否给我一个你的微笑？永远微笑吧！在人生的旅途上，最好的身份证就是——微笑。

21、微笑是一种魔力，它可以化解迷惑、猜疑；它是感情的大使，可以使心与心沟通。善意的微笑，会心的微笑，真诚的微笑，可以为你创造更多的商机。微笑是福，微笑是金，微笑是美。

22、微笑在人的生活中十分重要，它是滋润我们心田的阳光雨露，微笑是营业员的看家本领，须臾不可离身。

23、世界旅店业巨子希尔顿说：“我宁愿住进虽然只有残旧地毯，却能处处见到微笑的旅馆店，却不愿走进一家只有一流设备，却见不到微笑的宾馆。”

24、营业员的微笑必须是发自内心的，不能皮笑肉不笑。要出会心的微笑就要求营业员要心胸宽阔，感激生活。通过微笑，营业员能实行与顾客的情感沟通，使顾客感受到温情。

25、微笑的力量：我们在日常生活中常常会遇到上门推销产品的营业员，如果不管你怎样拒绝，他自始至终是以微笑来对待的，你能真的将他拒之门外吗？多数人恐怕是不忍心的。人家既然如此诚恳、耐心等待，怎么好意思断然拒绝呢？结果也许不仅我们自己买了他的产品，还要帮他向别人热心地推荐。由此可见，微笑是人们从眼神、从话语中流露出的真情。只有从微笑中彼此产生好感，才能进一步的交流。试想，谁愿意去接触一个没有笑容的木头人、冷面人呢？

26、美国最大的连锁店——沃尔·马特，它的创始人沃尔顿生前用一句话概括了他成为亿万富翁的秘诀：低买低卖，微笑攻势。同样，流行于美国的一首名为《好买卖》的歌谣这样写道：人们为什么走过一道门，而去光顾另一家？不是那里有更好的绸缎、手套或丝带，或者更便宜的商品，因为，那里有愉悦的话语和微笑的眼神。

27、微笑服务的魅力：
真诚的微笑对顾客而言意味着尊重。微笑给人一种有礼貌、有涵养的良好印象。微笑有利于自己保持良好的工作状态。常保持微笑会带来愉快的情绪，造就宽阔的胸怀。微笑是和顾客感情沟通的最好方式。

28、微笑服务做到8个“一个样”
不矫揉造作，领导在场不在场一个样。一视同仁，对待内宾外宾一个样。老少无欺，大人小孩一个样。心境平和，生意大小一个样。正确对待，买与不买一个样。始终如一，购物与退货一个样。端正态度，心情好坏一个样。

29、营业员在服务过程中应注意：第一、微笑是发自内心的真诚，只有笑出感情，才能亲切、甜美。第二，不能给顾客“练出来的微笑”，要自然。第三：不能在顾客一转过身，就停止微笑。第四，工作中保持良好的心态，不能带有个人情绪。

30、苏格兰谚语：笑比电便宜，比灯灿烂。

31、微笑
微笑不花一分钱，但却能给你带来巨大的好处，微笑会使对方富有，但不会使你变穷，它只有瞬间，但它留给人的记忆却是永远，没有微笑，你就不会这样富有和强大，有了微笑，你就会富而不贫，微笑能给家庭带来幸福，能给生意带来好运，给你带来友谊，它会使疲倦者感到愉悦，使失意者感到欢快，使悲哀者感到温暖，它是疾病的最好药方，微笑买不着，讨不来，借不到，偷不走，微笑是无价之宝，有人过于劳累，发不出微笑，把你的微笑献给他们，那正是他们的需要。

32、微笑服务的魅力：
微笑感染顾客：当顾客花钱消费时，希望得到的是满意的服务，他不想看到营业员一副愁眉苦脸的样子。当顾客怒气冲天地来抱怨、投诉的时候，如果你真诚地微笑服务，你就可能感染顾客，使他调整态度，有利于矛盾的化解。

微笑激发热情：在日常礼仪中，微笑常传递这样的信息：“见到你很高兴，我愿意为您服务”，所以，微笑可以激发你的服务热情，使你为顾客提供周到的服务。

微笑增强创造力：当你微笑着的时候，你就处于一种轻松愉悦的状态，这有助于思维的活跃，从而创造性地解决问题，相反，如果你神经紧紧地绷着，只会使你越来越紧张，创造力就会被扼杀。

33、怎样获得一个迷人的微笑呢？大家不妨按照以下3个步骤练习：
第一步，对镜子摆好姿势，说“E——”，让嘴的两端朝后缩，微张双唇；
第二步，轻轻地浅笑，减弱“E——”的程度，这时可感觉到颧骨被提后上方；
第三步，相同的动作反复几次，直到感觉自然为止。

34、微笑的三结合：
与眼睛的结合：当你微笑的时候，你的眼睛也要“微笑”，否则，给人感觉是“皮笑肉不笑”。眼睛是心灵的窗户，眼睛会说话也会笑。如果内心充满温和、善良和厚爱时，那眼睛的笑容一定非常感人。眼睛的笑容有两种：“眼形笑”和“眼神笑”。

与语言的结合：平时工作中我们不要光笑不说，或者是光说不笑。当顾客光临时，我们应微笑着说：“早上好”“您好”“欢迎光临”等礼貌用语。

与身体的结合：人们常说的肢体语言也是传递信息的一个重要方面。微笑与正确的身体语言相结合时，才会相得益彰，给顾客以最佳的印象。

35、微笑是最美丽的语言，常言道，伸手不打笑脸人。又有人说，没有笑脸的人最好不要做生意，尤其是与顾客接触的业务人员。一位不微笑的服务人员，跟一只老虎没有区别，你可曾想象过，顾客看到一只老虎会吓成什么样？上天赋予人类最大的资产就是——微笑。善用你的微笑，如同善用你的语言，最好是两者一起来。

微笑的秘决是，要嘴咧开的笑再加上眼睛也微笑，只有嘴巴的微笑看起来是做作的，显得比较僵硬而不自然；嘴巴的微笑加上眼睛的微笑，才能透露出内心真情的喜悦，那种微笑才是顾客所希望的。

36、无本赚大利！
给予者无需损失，而被给予者无比满足。发生在一瞬间，记忆在永生中。不管多大的富翁失去了它也无法生存，不管多么贫困的人，得到了它就会感到富足。它是友情的添加剂，它能带来家庭的幸福，生意的兴隆，事业的发达。对疲劳者是修养，对失望者是光明。对悲哀者是太阳，对忧愁者是天然解愁剂。
强买，强要，盗窃都无法得到手。只有通过无偿给予才能产生无限价值。

37、举手不打笑脸人。

38、一笑消怨愁。

39、笑一笑，十年少。

40、恰当的微笑：表现谦恭；表现友好；表现真诚；表现适时。

例如酒店大王希尔顿在他的酒店帝国巡视时，问得最多的一句话就是：“今天你对顾客微笑了吗？”可见微笑服务越来越受到人们的重视。

营业员如何为顾客提供一流的微笑服务呢？主要是做到：一，要有发自内心的微笑；第二，不要让你的个人情绪影响到了你的微笑。第三，要有宽阔的胸怀，第四，要与顾客有感情上的沟通（要为顾客着想，学会换位思考）。

正如纽约的一个百货公司的经理所说，他宁愿雇佣一个没上完小学但却有愉快笑容的女孩子，也不愿雇佣一个神情忧郁的博士。

对营业员来说，为了使顾客感到你亲切诚恳，自然的微笑是必不可少的。尽管工作中会遇到很多阻碍、困难，让你难以保持笑容，但营业员一定要想得开，这个客户不接受你，但还会有更多的新客户在等待你，你的新客户对你的烦恼既没有责任，也不感兴趣，你现在绷起脸来，对于解决你的困难毫无帮助，反而会更添烦恼，也必然会吓走新客户，这样失去的就不仅仅是一次机会了

Jiao Liu : 14 Jan 2009 13:30 |  Tags: Goodsentences Wisdom |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem