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July 19, 2006

Predestinated hostility, predestinated encounter

Recently watched a cartoon called ďwolf and sheepĒ, it’s about two hostile species establishing true friendship. No matter how disagree from the sheep family, or how disdainful objection from the wolf family, wolf Gabel and Sheep Mei just ran away from their home town, stayed in a jungle, watching moon light every night, and forever.

Have to say, wolf and sheep were much luckier than Romeo and Juliet. Romeo and Juliet from two hostile families, also predestinated encounter, love lead them to their path, they felt in love, but could not last forever. Juliet was going to fool everyone by pretending death, after that she could fly away with Romeo to have a new life, where no fighting, no combat at all. However Romeo thought his beloved was dead, so he ended his life by his sword in front of her coffin. And when Juliet woke up from the potion, what she saw is Romeo’s corpse, so she ended her live by Romeo’s sword, following her lover to another world.
Yes, all coincident caused this poor couple could not be together forever in the earth; but their immortal love just lasts for several centuries as classic. Is it only when our mortal fresh faded, then our fragile love could flare as stars? Is it mortal human being, have to accept the flowery love wearing away in drops as time goes by?

When people trade off love for money, fame, power, someone sacrifices live for love, should it be worshipful? Or it is pathetic? Eventually, love just a luxury, very few people could afford it, most people only could choose the commodity. Hopefully, Cupid will not be unemployed in the futureÖ






June 29, 2006

personal space for my singing

Dear all:

I found a nice space to upload 100M stuff, so I put my self singing there, including guitar play and karaoke singing. the link is:

by the way, alex you can register one and record your guitar playing there as well, haha.

the space is:

April 08, 2006

the profound sorrow

What is the grief making you so painful?

The profound sorrow

The sorrow deep in your bone and heart

Even in your blood marrow

When someone could not make you stay

Does it mean you donít love any more?

Or you donít have the strength to fight with your fate

What is the furthest distance in the world?

Is the death and alive

Or the distance between the sky and the earth

No, the furthest distance in the world

Is the distance of our hearts

Oppress our emotion

In connection to the profound sorrow

March 27, 2006

be a wise girl

【分享】聪明的女人 Be a Wise Girl

If a man began to ignore you, please leave him. You donít have to devote your love and your heart to someone doesnít appreciate it.

任何时候,不要为一个负心的男人伤心,女子更要懂得,伤心,最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的,你更是伤不到他的心,所以 ,收拾悲伤,好好生活。
Never break your heart for any man who is not worthy r. Heartbreak finally only break your heart not his heart. So be strong and carry on.

Never chase the man you like too close, although you love him terribly deep. Give him space and time, otherwise you will lose him eventually.

When a man says to you: letís finish! Donít cry, you should smile and reply: I have been waiting for you to say that, then turn away.

Always believe yourself, treat yourself, let your life splendid. You are not doing this for making anyone regret his lost, you are doing this for your own sake.

Please smile back to the people who truly appreciate you.

Dong go to bar or night club when you feel so lonely. A lonely woman with a cigarette and wine in hand, only make you feel more lonely and upset.

donít go for peacockery, it is drug and you will get addicted.

要有几个死党,独自一人的时候,保证还能有死党为你端茶送水。而不是声竭力嘶的嚎叫为什么说爱你的那 个人不能来陪你。
Have intimate friends, when you alone at least someone could get you a cup of water.

Open your eyes clearly to choose your partner. If you chose the wrong one please leave immediately, otherwise both of you will get hurt.

Go travelling; travelling could fulfil your emptiness.

Know what you want, including the man you love.

None is better than exceeding. Donít find a man because you are lonely, itís not fair for both of you, and lack of responsibility.

Say ďNOĒ to the one you donít want when he courting you, even he says ďitís not your businessĒ.

认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳,但至少能保证你有饭吃,有房子住,而不确定的爱情给不了这些,所以,认真努力 的工作。
Be serious to your job. Your job might not make your heart beats like you are in love, but at least your job ensures you have food, house, which love could not ensure. So work hard.

Donít be regret for someone you already missed, if they donít belong to you, then find another one who does.

Donít fall in love with a married man, even he swear he would divorce for you. If he doesnít love his wife anymore, he would divorce anyway, not because your existence.

情人节或者生日没有人送花也无所谓,不必自己去买一束让花店送来。你可以将买花 的钱买精美的礼物,送给妈妈和爸爸。
Itís ok no one buys you flower in Valentine Day, donít buy for yourself. You could save the money for presents for your parents.

You can love a man, but donít give your whole to love him. No one is worthy you to devote your life. If you donít cherish yourself, who else would?

Cook for him when you like, but donít do it everyday. You are not born to cook for him.

sing for yourself occasional, performance doesnít matter, as long as you feel good.

When you feel lonely, get some friends for shopping, chatting and meal. It doesnít have to be lonely.

If you text someone you like without any reply, donít text him anymore.

万一脆弱的不行了,请选好哭泣的对象,不要随便借 肩膀和胸膛。
if you have to cry, please choose a right audience. Donít pick a random guyís shoulder.

从现在开始,聪明一点,不要问他想不想你?爱不爱你?他要想你或者爱你自然会对 你说,但是从你的嘴里说出来,他会很骄傲和不在乎你。
Donít ask him ďdo you miss me?Ē ďDo you love me?Ē. He will say it if he really misses you or loves you. But if you ask him, it would make him proud to ignore you.

不要24 小时都想念同一个人。可以分一点给家人和朋友。
Donít miss the same person 24 hours. Spend some time to your family and your friends.

let him know you like him when itís available. You might not have the answer you want, but at least you try and you wont regret in the future.

If you want to leave a person, you better be quick. If you want to love a person, you better be slow to see if he is suitable for you.

If a man says he love you, believe him. When he says he doesnít love you, believe him too. Always tell yourself, itís lucky to leave a man who doesnít love you.

Love your parents. Call them or have meal with them at least once per week.

Donít have to banish yourself for someone. Life still going on whatever you love or not, finish is finish, why suffer yourself?

Buy good quality clothes, and find a good quality man. He doesnít have to be rich or handsome, but he has to make you feel happy and secure.
If someone said something upset you, try to forgive him. He would be regret he lost a good girl like you.

有一个最少两年内需要达成的目标。有目标的人生不 会太无聊。
At least have one goal you could achieve within 2 years. Without goal life is boring.

If so unfortunately you met a man only aim for sex, please smiles first then despise him: You are the most disgusting loser I ever met in the world. Then walk away with your grace.

If a man uses busy as excuse not to meet you or reply your email, not care what you are now and not share the life with you, please leave him bravely.
Nothing is more important than caring you. Love a man who doesnít love you, you are wasting you time.

Innocent is good, but if you are innocent in every case, it will become idiot.

Learn to live with pain. Some words should be buried in heart only; some pain should be forgotten quietly. Experience made you grown.

Donít wait for man buy you present. Buy for yourself when you want it, you feel much more comfortable.

Donít try to revenge a man after he left you, that only worse your life and your mind. The best way is to live better than before and tell him: ďThank you, I am happy.Ē

When you have time you can learn yoga and tae kwan do, yoga helps you relax your mind; Tae Kwan Do helps you protect life.

Love the person who loves you. If only you love him or only he loves you, please leave. You donít need someone pretends caring you, and you donít need to pretend caring someone.

Hold your belovedís hand when you walking in the park. if you donít have one, then learn to appreciate the view.

Please believe first sight love, believe there is someone always waiting for you in the corner of the world. As long as you see the world with your heart, and be patient.

做个睿智的女子。学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活 ,生活定会如你所愿,如同明早,太阳依旧会如时升起。
Be a wise girl, learn to cope with challenge and be positive. Life would be as you wish, as the sun rising in the east.

March 20, 2006

on the way to the journey is more important than the destination

when we try to arrive cerntain destinations, did we ignore thebeautiful viewduring the journey? When we try to seek for cerntain outcomes, did we ignore the processes?

one philosophist said:our beginning and destination are all the same-from birth to death, what makes the differences are the view during our journey.

human being often make such mistakes. when we study we only care the marks rather than what we have learnt; when we compete in sports we only care who won rather than challenge ourleves; when we have relationship we only care the workout rather than single detail we share and enjoy….

Yes, we kept the peel and threw all the essential parts of our life, how silly it is!

From today, I want to enjoy my view on the journey, no matter where is my destination, there must be something beautiful worthy to explore….

February 24, 2006

socrates talking about breaking up sorrow

  • Socrates walked on the street, saw a young man was very upset there sitting under a tree, he asked: what's wrong young boy?

man: I broke up with my bird friend

S: I see, but that's normal. if you dont feel any sorrow after you broke up, there is no taste at all for this love isnt it? however I think you jump into this droke up sorrow more serious than you were in love.

man: ah, just lost something one step before I almost had it, such pity, such depression, you were not me how could you understand what difficulty I have experienced?

S: lost is lost, there is nothing you could do more. why not move on, there are still many grestness waiting for you.
man:I will be waiting here, until the rock melt by the sun, until the ocean changed into land, until she changed her mind and come back to me.

s: but maybe this day never come.eventually you would just watch her goes more and more further with another guy, there is nothing you could do about it.
man: then I will suecide to show my fidelity!
S: if you really did that, you lost not only your lover but also youself in the same time, you will lose double!

man: How about ruin her life? if I could not have her no one else could either!
S: this only make her run away from you further, but your intention was to get closer to her.
man: then please tell me what should I do? I do really love her!
S: really lover her that much?
man: yes
S: then would you want the person you love have happiness?
man: of course I do!

S: what if she think leaving you is the happiness she could have?
Man: thatís impossible! She said she find her happiness once when she is with me!
S: that was before she used to think, but now she doesnít think so any more.

Man: so, you mean she has been deceiving me all the time?

S: No! she has been faithful to you all the time! When she was loving you she wish to be with you. Now she doesnít love you anymore, therefore she leave you. There is nothing more faithful than this. If she doesnít love you but still pretend she does, even marry you and have kids with you, that is deceive!

Man: but who give me compensation for my lost? I have wasted all my sentiments!

S: oh no no, your sentiment was never wasted, hence compensation never exist. When you give your sentiment she gave hers too, when you brought her happiness she did the same.

Man: But she doesnít love me any more now, I still love her so much! Itís not fair !

S: absolutely not fair at all! I mean to the one you still love now! You have your right to love her, she has her right to love you too. But now you want to use your right in the same time reaving her right! How unfair it is!

Man: but as you see now, I am the one who is suffering, suffering for her!

S: suffering for her? She is happy now, I think you should say you are suffering for yourself! My boy, doing something for yourself but use other excuses, itís not ethics!

Man: so you mean, from the beginning all my fault?

S: well, yes, kind of! If you could bring her the happiness she wont leave you. You should know no one wants to refuse happiness.

Man: what is happiness? I gave her everything! My heart and my soul! You know why she left me? Just because I am poor!

S: you are a very healthy person, why you donít try to get money?
Man: but she didnít even give me a chance! Isnít she evil?

S: of course she is. But fortunately you get rid of this evil person now, you feel happy my child.

Man: Happy? How can I be? After all I was dumped, it made me feel humiliatory.

S: no, young people should only have pride, not humiliation. Remember, being dumped doesnít mean itís not a good thing.
Man: please explain.

S: once I saw an elegant suit in a shop, I llike it so much. When the sales person asked me if I want it , I said: the material is too bad, I donít want it! In fact, just because didnít have any money in my pocket. Young boy, maybe you are that elegant suit.

Man: you are good at comforting people, but you still cannot help me out from the suffer of this break up.

S: Yes, I am sorry that I donít have this capability to help you, but I could recommend a friend who has such capability to you.
Man: who ?

S: time. Time is the greatest mentor of human being. I have seen many many people were suffering by breaking up, it is time who help them to heal their pain, and chose a best partner for them, finally they all deserve the happiness they suppose to have.

Man: I wish I could have that day too. But how should I move my first step?

S: to thank that person who dumped you, and bless her.

msn: Why?

S: because she gave you the fidelity, and gave you a new chance to search your happiness.

After those words Socrates left, and the rest journey should be completed by this suffering young man.

(I wish you could learn something from this dialogue, not only in the love aspect, but also in every aspect in our life time.)


苏:不,她一直对你很忠诚。当她爱你的时候,她和你在一起,现在她不爱你,她就离去了,世界上再没有比这更大的忠诚。如果她不再爱你,却还装的对你很有情谊,甚至跟你结婚,生子,那才 是真正的欺骗呢。


February 23, 2006

thanks to everyone

Thank you to everyone! to Paul, all my classmates, my friends in china and EU, especially my mom.

cintinuously being depressed and upset are useless for me, and I should move on living happily for people who care me.

I will concentrate on my study from now on, and after graduate I will go back China to live with my mom. during these years I ignored her too much, it's time to be a good daughter.

thanks to everyone again.

some reflections

I dont know if this is true, best students get the hardest problems?? then I wish I am just a normal student, I dont need to experience hardest problems, beside I am not a good student anyway.

I remeber there is a story:

a farmer everyday pass by the jesus status, he said: I wish I could take your place, then you dont need to be hang there so hurt.

oneday Jesus seems heard his word and said: ok, you can take my place, but you must promise you cannot say a word no matter what you see and what you hear.

the farmer agreed, so he was there to listen to everyone now. many many people come to pray and talk about their problems, the farmer wish to give solutions, but he didnt eventually.

One day a rich man came over and pray: please let me keep my treasure forever! then he left, but he forgot his wallet farmer wanted to tell him you forgot your wallet, but he didnt.
there. then a poor man came and pray: please help me! I dont have any money! when he was going to leave he found that wallet. "dear juses! thank you very much! "then he left happily. farmer wanted to tell him: it's not your wallet! but he still didnt say nothing. then a young man arrived, he pray: I am going to far away now, please let me safe. at this moment, that rich man came back, and said: where is my wallet? you must have my wallet! give it back to me!

the Farmer finally could not keep quiet anymore, he said: he didnt get your wallet! then he explained what happened, and the rich man got back his wallet, the young man rush to the ship.

Juses said: come down! you are not qualified to be there anymore!

why? farmer asked: I just did the right thing!

the right thing? juses said: that rich man use those money for prostitution, that poor man use those money for feeding his whole family! more over, if the young man miss his ship, he could save his life! because that ship will sink in the sea! now you mess everythign up , because you think you just did the right thing!

sometimes, we always believe we just did the right thing, and we always try to change what happening to our lives. actually, everything is predetinated. what was set is the best choice for us already, if we try to change thing according to what we think it;s the best, maybe we could wourse the situation.

I just want to follow my fate, whatever happen, I believe it;s the best choice for me. there will be something, someone, somewhere….are waiting for me.

cherish what I have, because I would never know what will happen tomorrow.

January 21, 2006

I want to hold your hand and walk through our lives end

I want to hold your hand and walk through our lives end

I want to watch the stars with you till the sky falls

I want to visit every conner in this world till we couldn't walk

I want to stay in your arms till I could not move

With this hand, I will lift all your sorrows

Your cup'll never empty,for I will be your wine

With this candle I will light up your way in the darkness

With this ring, I do wish to become your wife

After the rain I saw the rainbow
After the darkness I saw the dawn

After my previous searching I found you

After my life ends I still want to be yours

Cupid called, you took my heart
Venus called, you took my breathe away
shakespeare called, you inspired me
Homan called, you changed my history

My darling, I want to stay with you
till all our hair become grey
till wrinkles full of our faces
till my life fire extinguishes

This poem is dedicated to my beloved husband Ed _

December 05, 2005

Happy potter 4–Goblet of fire

this Saturday I have been to cinema with my fiance to see this Harry Potter 4-Goblet of fire. I am so….disappointed!

I am a big fan of Harry Potter, from 2001 I just went to cinema for every film, but this one is not as good as I expected. my fiance even fall in sleep in the last 20 minutes.

The content for this film is not well designed, also too many points are questioned left. many WHY? HOW? full of my brain, and we have been discussed for half hour still could not find the answers. seems didnt make sense at all! wicked!

at the beginning I thought it's my english problem coz I cannot fully master this language well enough, however my fiance told me even him could not understand the film in his native language. if we could not understand, how the kids could understand??

Harry Potter, as your fame is growing, you have been exaggerated your splendor and glory so far, isnt it a shame?

As Professor snipper said: Fame isnt everything, is it?

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