All entries for March 2006
March 29, 2006
There are one pig, one sheep and one cow lived in the save place. One day, the shepherd caught the pig and tries to pull him out. Pig was crying, sheep and cow were annoyed by his noise, said: ďWhat is the matter? He often catches us and pull us out, we never cry!Ē
The pig said: ďThatís completely different! He caught you for your wool and your milk only. He caught me for my life!Ē
(People often cannot understand others in different situations. When you see others frustrated, hurt, painful, please try to care them not laughing at them. )
Depend on ourselves
Baby snail asked:Ē Mom, why we have to carry this heavy hard big shell since we born?Ē
Snail Mom: Because we donít have any bone to support us, so we could only climb but very very slow. Therefore this shell is here to protect us.
Baby snail: but why caterpillar has no bone either, she doesnít need to carry this shell?
Snail mom: because caterpillar could become butterfly one day, the sky will protect her.
Baby snail: then earthworm has no bone nor became butterfly one day, why he doesnít need to carry this shell?
Snail Mom: because earthworm could drill, so the earth would protect him.
Baby snail cries: we are such poor creature! There is no sky or earth to protect us.
Snail mom said: Honey, thatís why we have the shell! We donít depend on the sky or the earth, we depend on ourselves!
Shark and fish
Someone did the experiment before. He put a vicious shark with some fish together in the pond, but using special glass to separate them. At the beginning the shark attacked the transparent glass everyday, he tried to eat those fish but he could not. Every time staff change a new glass when the glass had a small crack, it became harder and stronger material, the shark often attacked till bleed.
Eventually one day, the shark stopped attacking the glass, so the staff removed the glass, but the shark still stayed in his side. So the experiment was off, staff laughed that shark was the most coward creature in the ocean.
But people who hurt in the relationship before all understood why-because the shark doesnít want to get hurt again.
A small town in France, it said there was miracle spring water could heal many diseases. One day, a retired soldier with one leg only arrived. People said: ďpoor guy, does he want to beg the God give him another leg again?Ē
The soldier heard it and answered: ďNo! I want to beg the God to show me how to move on my life without one leg.Ē
(Try to accept the fact what you lost, and try to appreciate what you lost. Whatever lost or gaining in our lives, we should try to light up the fire for our future, donít cry for the pass and try to find out the meaning of the lives.)
An old man was fishing by the river, a kid saw it and came next to him. Old man likes the kid so wants to give the fish to him. The kid said no. old man surprised: ďwhy not?Ē the kid said: ďI want to have your fish rod.Ē
ďwhat you are going to do with that fish rod?Ē old man asked.
The kid said: ďthe fish would be eaten very shortly. If I have the fish rod, I could fish for myself, then I could always have fish.Ē
(You might think he is a clever kid, but he isnít . if he only asked for the fish rod, he cannot even have one fish at all. Why? Because he doesnít know how to fish yet, so only acquire the fish rod is useless. The trick for fishing is the fishing TECHNIQUE, not the fish rod. many people thought they have the fish rod so they have everything. As the kid thought as long as having the fish rod then he could always have fish, employees thought as long as they sit on the directorís office then make them always have money.
March 27, 2006
【分享】聪明的女人 Be a Wise Girl
If a man began to ignore you, please leave him. You donít have to devote your love and your heart to someone doesnít appreciate it.
Never break your heart for any man who is not worthy r. Heartbreak finally only break your heart not his heart. So be strong and carry on.
Never chase the man you like too close, although you love him terribly deep. Give him space and time, otherwise you will lose him eventually.
When a man says to you: letís finish! Donít cry, you should smile and reply: I have been waiting for you to say that, then turn away.
Always believe yourself, treat yourself, let your life splendid. You are not doing this for making anyone regret his lost, you are doing this for your own sake.
Please smile back to the people who truly appreciate you.
Dong go to bar or night club when you feel so lonely. A lonely woman with a cigarette and wine in hand, only make you feel more lonely and upset.
donít go for peacockery, it is drug and you will get addicted.
Have intimate friends, when you alone at least someone could get you a cup of water.
Open your eyes clearly to choose your partner. If you chose the wrong one please leave immediately, otherwise both of you will get hurt.
Go travelling; travelling could fulfil your emptiness.
Know what you want, including the man you love.
None is better than exceeding. Donít find a man because you are lonely, itís not fair for both of you, and lack of responsibility.
Say ďNOĒ to the one you donít want when he courting you, even he says ďitís not your businessĒ.
Be serious to your job. Your job might not make your heart beats like you are in love, but at least your job ensures you have food, house, which love could not ensure. So work hard.
Donít be regret for someone you already missed, if they donít belong to you, then find another one who does.
Donít fall in love with a married man, even he swear he would divorce for you. If he doesnít love his wife anymore, he would divorce anyway, not because your existence.
Itís ok no one buys you flower in Valentine Day, donít buy for yourself. You could save the money for presents for your parents.
You can love a man, but donít give your whole to love him. No one is worthy you to devote your life. If you donít cherish yourself, who else would?
Cook for him when you like, but donít do it everyday. You are not born to cook for him.
sing for yourself occasional, performance doesnít matter, as long as you feel good.
When you feel lonely, get some friends for shopping, chatting and meal. It doesnít have to be lonely.
If you text someone you like without any reply, donít text him anymore.
if you have to cry, please choose a right audience. Donít pick a random guyís shoulder.
Donít ask him ďdo you miss me?Ē ďDo you love me?Ē. He will say it if he really misses you or loves you. But if you ask him, it would make him proud to ignore you.
Donít miss the same person 24 hours. Spend some time to your family and your friends.
let him know you like him when itís available. You might not have the answer you want, but at least you try and you wont regret in the future.
If you want to leave a person, you better be quick. If you want to love a person, you better be slow to see if he is suitable for you.
If a man says he love you, believe him. When he says he doesnít love you, believe him too. Always tell yourself, itís lucky to leave a man who doesnít love you.
Love your parents. Call them or have meal with them at least once per week.
Donít have to banish yourself for someone. Life still going on whatever you love or not, finish is finish, why suffer yourself?
Buy good quality clothes, and find a good quality man. He doesnít have to be rich or handsome, but he has to make you feel happy and secure.
If someone said something upset you, try to forgive him. He would be regret he lost a good girl like you.
At least have one goal you could achieve within 2 years. Without goal life is boring.
If so unfortunately you met a man only aim for sex, please smiles first then despise him: You are the most disgusting loser I ever met in the world. Then walk away with your grace.
If a man uses busy as excuse not to meet you or reply your email, not care what you are now and not share the life with you, please leave him bravely.
Nothing is more important than caring you. Love a man who doesnít love you, you are wasting you time.
Innocent is good, but if you are innocent in every case, it will become idiot.
Learn to live with pain. Some words should be buried in heart only; some pain should be forgotten quietly. Experience made you grown.
Donít wait for man buy you present. Buy for yourself when you want it, you feel much more comfortable.
Donít try to revenge a man after he left you, that only worse your life and your mind. The best way is to live better than before and tell him: ďThank you, I am happy.Ē
When you have time you can learn yoga and tae kwan do, yoga helps you relax your mind; Tae Kwan Do helps you protect life.
Love the person who loves you. If only you love him or only he loves you, please leave. You donít need someone pretends caring you, and you donít need to pretend caring someone.
Hold your belovedís hand when you walking in the park. if you donít have one, then learn to appreciate the view.
Please believe first sight love, believe there is someone always waiting for you in the corner of the world. As long as you see the world with your heart, and be patient.
Be a wise girl, learn to cope with challenge and be positive. Life would be as you wish, as the sun rising in the east.
March 20, 2006
when we try to arrive cerntain destinations, did we ignore thebeautiful viewduring the journey? When we try to seek for cerntain outcomes, did we ignore the processes?
one philosophist said:our beginning and destination are all the same-from birth to death, what makes the differences are the view during our journey.
human being often make such mistakes. when we study we only care the marks rather than what we have learnt; when we compete in sports we only care who won rather than challenge ourleves; when we have relationship we only care the workout rather than single detail we share and enjoy….
Yes, we kept the peel and threw all the essential parts of our life, how silly it is!
From today, I want to enjoy my view on the journey, no matter where is my destination, there must be something beautiful worthy to explore….
since the product improvement using six sigma, the modules invlove a lot of engineering system design, and I found it's very interesting!
robustness Design and Development even made me want to be an engineer in the future, but my Mths, Physics are very bad, so I know just dreaming.
Now I want to know more about engineering knowledge, and I admire engineers! our lives rely on engineering environment, and the engineers are there to maintain, develop, innovate them, I like Robustness this word, haha!