be a wise girl

【分享】聪明的女人 Be a Wise Girl

如果一个男人开始怠慢你，请你离开他。不懂得疼惜你的男人不要为之不舍，更不必继续付出你的柔情和爱情。
If a man began to ignore you, please leave him. You don’t have to devote your love and your heart to someone doesn’t appreciate it.

任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以 ，收拾悲伤，好好生活。
Never break your heart for any man who is not worthy r. Heartbreak finally only break your heart not his heart. So be strong and carry on.

永远不要无休止的围着你喜欢的那个男人转，尽管你喜欢得他快要掏心掏肺的死掉了，也还是要学着给他空间，否则，你要小心缠得太紧勒死了他。
Never chase the man you like too close, although you love him terribly deep. Give him space and time, otherwise you will lose him eventually.

当一个男人对你说：分手吧。请不要哭泣和流泪，应该笑着说：等你说这话很久了。然后转身走掉。
When a man says to you: let’s finish! Don’t cry, you should smile and reply: I have been waiting for you to say that, then turn away.

要相信自己，善待自己，让自己的生活精彩纷呈。不要误认为是要让某个人后悔，而是为了让自己的人生更精彩。
Always believe yourself, treat yourself, let your life splendid. You are not doing this for making anyone regret his lost, you are doing this for your own sake.

对善意欣赏你的男子回报浅浅的微笑。
Please smile back to the people who truly appreciate you.

再郁闷也不要去泡酒吧。一个孤独的女子手握高脚杯或者抽烟，会更添寂寞感与忧伤。
Dong go to bar or night club when you feel so lonely. A lonely woman with a cigarette and wine in hand, only make you feel more lonely and upset.

不要贪慕虚荣。虚荣是一剂毒药，而且会上瘾。
don’t go for peacockery, it is drug and you will get addicted.

要有几个死党，独自一人的时候，保证还能有死党为你端茶送水。而不是声竭力嘶的嚎叫为什么说爱你的那 个人不能来陪你。
Have intimate friends, when you alone at least someone could get you a cup of water.

睁开双眼选择你的未来伴侣，如果选错了，立即分开。不要凑合过日，那样会害了两个人。
Open your eyes clearly to choose your partner. If you chose the wrong one please leave immediately, otherwise both of you will get hurt.

外出旅游。旅行中的心灵能更充实。
Go travelling; travelling could fulfil your emptiness.

知道自己要什么，包括你爱的男人。
Know what you want, including the man you love.

宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞随手抓一个男人，这对你和他都不公平，而且太缺乏责任感。
None is better than exceeding. Don’t find a man because you are lonely, it’s not fair for both of you, and lack of responsibility.

对你不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心坚定的说不和拒绝。即使他说，这不关你的事。
Say “NO” to the one you don’t want when he courting you, even he says “it’s not your business”.

认真的对待你的工作。工作也许不如爱情来的让你心跳，但至少能保证你有饭吃，有房子住，而不确定的爱情给不了这些，所以，认真努力 的工作。
Be serious to your job. Your job might not make your heart beats like you are in love, but at least your job ensures you have food, house, which love could not ensure. So work hard.

已经错失的好男人不要去后悔，他们不属于你，于是你要睁大眼睛再找一个。
Don’t be regret for someone you already missed, if they don’t belong to you, then find another one who does.

不要爱上已婚却还对你信誓旦旦说会抛妻弃子迎娶你的男人。如果他们真的没感情，自然会离婚，而不是整日对你说些莫名其妙的话。
Don’t fall in love with a married man, even he swear he would divorce for you. If he doesn’t love his wife anymore, he would divorce anyway, not because your existence.

情人节或者生日没有人送花也无所谓，不必自己去买一束让花店送来。你可以将买花 的钱买精美的礼物，送给妈妈和爸爸。
It’s ok no one buys you flower in Valentine Day, don’t buy for yourself. You could save the money for presents for your parents.

你可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？
You can love a man, but don’t give your whole to love him. No one is worthy you to devote your life. If you don’t cherish yourself, who else would?

偶尔做美女私房菜给他或者老友吃。但不要天天做，你生来不是为了某个人天天下厨房。
Cook for him when you like, but don’t do it everyday. You are not born to cook for him.

偶尔自己唱歌给自己听，好坏不重要，心情爽朗就可以。
sing for yourself occasional, performance doesn’t matter, as long as you feel good.

孤单的时候找好朋友聊天、逛街、吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。
When you feel lonely, get some friends for shopping, chatting and meal. It doesn’t have to be lonely.

如果发短信息给你喜欢的人，他不回。不要再发。
If you text someone you like without any reply, don’t text him anymore.

万一脆弱的不行了，请选好哭泣的对象，不要随便借 肩膀和胸膛。
if you have to cry, please choose a right audience. Don’t pick a random guy’s shoulder.

从现在开始，聪明一点，不要问他想不想你？爱不爱你？他要想你或者爱你自然会对 你说，但是从你的嘴里说出来，他会很骄傲和不在乎你。
Don’t ask him “do you miss me?” “Do you love me?”. He will say it if he really misses you or loves you. But if you ask him, it would make him proud to ignore you.

不要24 小时都想念同一个人。可以分一点给家人和朋友。
Don’t miss the same person 24 hours. Spend some time to your family and your friends.

如果喜欢一个人，在允许的情况下，告诉对方。也许得不到答案，但至少你努力过，将来不必后悔（也许后悔的是对方，呵呵）。
let him know you like him when it’s available. You might not have the answer you want, but at least you try and you wont regret in the future.

如果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。
If you want to leave a person, you better be quick. If you want to love a person, you better be slow to see if he is suitable for you.

如果一个男人对你说他喜欢你，相信他。如果他说不再爱你，也相信他。任何时候，要告诉自己，一个不爱你的人离开，是幸运。
If a man says he love you, believe him. When he says he doesn’t love you, believe him too. Always tell yourself, it’s lucky to leave a man who doesn’t love you.

爱父母，每周一次打电话或者抽时间共进晚餐。（应该在前十条中。）
Love your parents. Call them or have meal with them at least once per week.

不必为某个人选择销毁ID或者失踪。爱和不爱都将继续生活，结束就好好结束，何必苦了自己？
Don’t have to banish yourself for someone. Life still going on whatever you love or not, finish is finish, why suffer yourself?

穿有质感的衣服，找有质量的男朋友。他不一定很有钱，但是一定要能让你有安全感和开心。
Buy good quality clothes, and find a good quality man. He doesn’t have to be rich or handsome, but he has to make you feel happy and secure.
如果哪个男人说了让你难堪的话，原谅他。一个被原谅的男人最后会后悔失去一个像你这么宽容的女朋友。
If someone said something upset you, try to forgive him. He would be regret he lost a good girl like you.

有一个最少两年内需要达成的目标。有目标的人生不 会太无聊。
At least have one goal you could achieve within 2 years. Without goal life is boring.

如果很不幸遇上了一个以上床为目的，对你始乱终弃的男人，请先微笑，然后鄙视他：你是我这辈子遇见的最龌龊最无能的男人。然后用最美的方式头也不要回的离开。
If so unfortunately you met a man only aim for sex, please smiles first then despise him: You are the most disgusting loser I ever met in the world. Then walk away with your grace.

如果男人以他忙为理由，不来探你的病情，不回你的邮件，不关心你的现状，不能和你承担生活的重负，无法给你勇气。勇敢一点，自动离开。没有什么比自己关心自己来得实在。而一个不爱你的人，你付出的再多，他再好，那也不过是浪费时间和精力。
If a man uses busy as excuse not to meet you or reply your email, not care what you are now and not share the life with you, please leave him bravely.
Nothing is more important than caring you. Love a man who doesn’t love you, you are wasting you time.

天真纯洁很好。但是不分场合的天真就会成为白痴行为。
Innocent is good, but if you are innocent in every case, it will become idiot.

学会承受痛苦。有些话，适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。当经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。很多改变，不需要你己说，别人会看得到。
Learn to live with pain. Some words should be buried in heart only; some pain should be forgotten quietly. Experience made you grown.

不要等男人给你买礼物，想对自己好的时候，就自己去买。用起来会更舒心。
Don’t wait for man buy you present. Buy for yourself when you want it, you feel much more comfortable.

不要在一个男人离开之后，企图用报复心理去生活。那只会让你的生活乱成一团。正确的做法是比从前生活的更好。并告诉他：你生活的很好，很快乐，让他不要担心。
Don’t try to revenge a man after he left you, that only worse your life and your mind. The best way is to live better than before and tell him: “Thank you, I am happy.”

有时间的话，去学瑜伽或者跆拳道。前者能让你放松身心，后者可以防身。
When you have time you can learn yoga and tae kwan do, yoga helps you relax your mind; Tae Kwan Do helps you protect life.
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爱那个爱你的人。如果只是你爱他，或者只是他爱你。趁早分开。女子不需要他人来假装疼爱，你也不需要假装疼爱某人。
Love the person who loves you. If only you love him or only he loves you, please leave. You don’t need someone pretends caring you, and you don’t need to pretend caring someone.

如果可以，和相爱的人牵手漫步。在找不到之前，学会自己欣赏风景。
Hold your beloved’s hand when you walking in the park. if you don’t have one, then learn to appreciate the view.

相信一见钟情的爱情，相信总有一个人会在岁月的拐角处静静的等你。只是你要擦亮眼睛，细心寻找。
Please believe first sight love, believe there is someone always waiting for you in the corner of the world. As long as you see the world with your heart, and be patient.

做个睿智的女子。学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活 ，生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。
Be a wise girl, learn to cope with challenge and be positive. Life would be as you wish, as the sun rising in the east.

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