All entries for Wednesday 22 December 2004
December 22, 2004
put myself in the other's shoe
Follow-up to after the compiler exam from A tndk119 Wen(^_^)//
i think spending my year aboard here really teach me to think for the others. well, maybe it is not the result of the location. it is just that I am getting mature.
I think when we were young, our heads are too small to contain complicated information, as we grow up, we begin to think more and react differently. I was very selfish and inconsiderable. now, I start to realize that I can do what I want but I have to also consider what would be the concequences.
for instance, i make appointment with somebody and they are late. I am not blame them at all and I will think excuses for them. In such cases, people may or may not realize their mistake, but for those who does, I didnt make them feel worse, that's good enough. I guess I am generally a nice person, who does not want to hurt people's feelings. but in a good way. sometimes, you have to be strict about some kinda mis-behaviour. anyway, being forgiving and knowing to think for the other people are good things.
————————— i had all these thought because I cant find my friend after exam when he suppose to wait me outside. I wasnt mad and I thought he might have something more urgent to do. turned out to be I am rite about it. coz he emailed me soon after explained that he needed to go bathroom badly. C, being understandable make both you and the other pp feel good.
after the compiler exam
yeh, i think i did badly, but may still be able to pass the course, with an overall about 60.
I have to do well in tomorrow's Accounting exam. at least 91 out of 130. I am working hard now at college lib… need to reconsider what courses to take next semester and finding an internship for this summer… I was so terrified this afternoon. couldnt find my passport again…imagine if i have misplaced it again and all kinds of troubles coming after that~my winter break is gonna be a desaster…luckily, that is not the case… but I should really be careful and pay more attention on this…
I will write some review about my first semester, since I have to have something to make up my exchange year report. Being realized that I learnt absolute nothing other than copying other pp's work, I think I do need work hard and it is not too late to catch up now, glad I am here. otherwise, I will not be a well representation of my university and my degree. work harder and you will shine.
Thanks2Jun, well, still feel pretty sad about his leaving. lost someone more than a friend and somebody like a light lit my way of progressing. k, accounting now.