All entries for Wednesday 03 November 2004

mysterious Lady has three kinds of male friend

神秘女人的三个男友

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　　神秘是女人最大的魅力之一。女人只有一个男朋友，容易孤注一掷地把自己好的坏的侧面全加给他。他即使非常喜欢你，你也一定有他不喜欢的地方。包容总会带给人压力，包容久了要么麻木，要么就是对这个人绝望。我建议女人至少有3个男朋友，他们是你的爱人、知音和死党。

　　爱人：女人必须有一个倾心爱慕的男人，这样心灵和外表都会因爱情而刻意修炼。没有爱情最容易让女人自暴自弃。女人的爱情可以是扎扎实实地把握在手中，也可以是一桩悬而未结的心愿，关键是有爱情存在。爱情里的女人敏感脆弱，欢笑也多，泪水也多，有灵性的生命才是最动人的。爱人藏在女人心里最柔软的地方，女人即使为爱形容憔悴，生命本身也灿烂如花。 想获得爱情不能坐以待毙，遇上好的男人不应轻易错失机会。男人对待爱情的姿态千差万别，爱什么样的男人决定爱情的结果。

　　知音：女人可以分为关心思想和关心生活两类，关心生活的女人没等跟男人交朋友就做贤妻良母去了，能和男人交朋友的一定是有思想的女人。思想需要交流才能长久，有思想的女人要找个欣赏你思想的男人才会更有思想。找到这样一个能关心你思想的男朋友，女人的思想便具备了产生飞跃的可能性，因为能和异性交流等于汲取了两性的精华。 女人要敢于在男人面前表现自己的思想。听女人剖析是男人展示自信的一着。做女人不能太贪，既然他已经爱了你的思想，就别指望他还爱你的其他优点。你必须接受，他像爱你的思想一样爱着其他的女人，他与你在思想上亲密无间，而在生活上却毫不相干。

　　死党："死党"这种友情在不伤害周围人的基础上，完全可以以同性的姿态交往。你们可以无话不谈，可以煲电话粥，可以互相透露隐私，特别是商量对付异性的方法。每天面对上司、男朋友、特别是那个你爱的男人，难免有解不开的疑问，而同性朋友在认识上总有性别的偏颇。这个时候你的男性死党便可以站在男人的角度，帮你设想和分析。 女人受了伤害需要哭哭鼻子，发发牢骚，死党是最佳人选之一。男人不敢向外透露女人的隐私的最大心理障碍是怕别人怀疑关系暧昧。这种男性朋友需要长久培养，信任是磨出来的。你想乘凉先要栽树。培养一个这样的朋友，要经得住男女之情的诱惑，别为一时的好感丢了一辈子朋友这个世界找个爱你一时的男人容易，找个关心你一生的男性朋友很难。

　　女人拥有这三种男人，便可以像一只八爪鱼，在急流中用一只脚生跟，不会随波逐流。

: 03 Nov 2004 19:54 |  Tags: Sensitive Mi |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

Marry in haste and repent at leisure.

First of all, the saying title is not apply to me.

1. 共同的生活目标. 知道在生活底线上，你要的是什么，然后嫁一个和你一样的人。
2. 和这个人分享我的感觉与思想时，觉得安全。
3. 他是个值得敬佩，很特别的人。基本上这个世界有两种人：一种是致力于个人成长的人，另一种则是寻求舒适生活的人。
4. 他是否善待身边的人，乐于给予，懂得感激。
5. 不要准备在婚后改变他什么，不要结婚，如果还无法完全接受现在的他。

“她走在我们中间，让我们几个年轻的女子觉得自己是几个鲁莽的男人。“
这是怎样的一种女人。。。

: 03 Nov 2004 19:50 |  Tags: Sensitive Mi |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

Bush Wins

President Bush's been re-elected. He's proved that he's better than his father – Eld Bush. WI supports Kerry, I still remember on my way home last Saturday, the halloween night, there was a guy asking me about who I will vote for, I know he supports Kerry and myself dosent really have any clue about it. I will vote for Kerry, because I am in Wisconsin. Never fight against local. Sometimes it could be dangerous, I was taking the candies from Bush's Supporter during the parade weeks ago, because I am a girl and I am foreigner etc, so I didnt get beaten by local. But I almost got my friends…You can imagine that thousands of pp on street, nobody but me wants the candy from Bush… ^^ I will never do it again. well, if I have the chance.
Young Bush.
Oh, here is a interesting letter, introduced by JBK.

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To All American Voters,

I am a senior citizen. During the Clinton Administration, I had an extremely good and well paying job. I took numerous vacations and had several vacation homes. Since President Bush took office, I have watched my entire life change for the worse.

I lost my job.
I lost my two sons in that terrible Iraqi War.
I lost my homes.
I lost my health insurance.

As a matter of fact I lost virtually everything and became homeless. Adding insult to injury, when the authorities found me living like an animal, instead of helping me, they arrested me. I will do anything that Senator Kerry wants to insure that a Democrat is back in the White House come next year. Bush has to go.

I just thought you would like to know how one senior citizen views the Bush Administration.

Thank you for taking time to read my letter.

Sincerely,
Saddam Hussein

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I was talking with Alex and his dear gf – Elisavet. She wants to come to China and work there. I am happy to hear that.

: 03 Nov 2004 19:30 |  Tags: Gossip |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem

Election 2004

www.cnn.com
Looks like G.Bush's gonna win, which means I have got at least one question right for Acct Quiz 4.
I did ok for last week's exams. ^^

Oh,happy birthday to Darcy. (Yan Ge)

: 03 Nov 2004 07:16 |  Tags: Gossip |  Comments (0) |  Close comments |  Report a problem