April 26, 2005

Playing the waiting game

I hate the waiting game. My best friend has fallen out with me and at the moment I don't know whether she ever wants to be my friend again, I'm not going to go into why its happened. All I want to do is ask her if she can she herself trusting me again but due to the circumstances I can't actually ask, all I can do is sit here wondering.

I wonder if it is like Schrödinger's cat, perhaps she is both my friend and not my friend at the same time until the point where I actually ask or look. I suppose by that reackoning I should just ask and the question of friendship will be decided, if only things were that simple though, unlike Schrödinger's cat time will more than likely play a part in the final outcome.

I don't really have time to be pondering whether the friendship is over or not though, I have a large-ish feasibility study to do that's due in tomorrow, although to avoid work I found a picture of what I think Schrödinger's cat looked like (before it was put in a box and died of starvation – I guess time did take it's toll after all)

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  1. The last thing you want is for your best friend to halt your friendship during an exam period… My advice is to shift her out of your mind until after the exam time (especially if the catalyst was an attempt to move the relationship up a notch) otherwise you might end up becoming consumed with asking about reasons and wondering what you can do etc.

    After the exams, try to see if you can patch things up. But follow the maxim "Hope for the best, expect the worst."

    26 Apr 2005, 16:57

  2. I'm affraid I'm not going to be able to just shift my problems with my best friend out of mind for 8 weeks, you are wrong about the catalyst though, well kind of, its been more a breakdown of communication resulting in a loss of trust.

    26 Apr 2005, 17:41

  3. Yeah it's easy to say, but it's a lot harder to do. But try and push them as far to the back of your mind as possible.

    Women… so bloody hard to communicate with sometimes, eh?

    27 Apr 2005, 17:15

  4. Oh another cute cat picture. I would say sorry to hear about your friend but I have already read the other blog where you say things are all sorted out, which is good of course.

    24 May 2005, 15:50

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