Eroticism Part II
Writing about web page http://feminism.eserver.org/gender/sex-work/pornography-and-damage.txt
Three pertinent quotes from Damian Byers, (Originally from Arena Magazine No.3 February-March 1993):
The consumer of pornography intends a relation to another, not to an image of another. For the consumer, the image is not a thing in isolation; it stands between, mediates, offers a way of entering upon a person.
The capacity for care is not itself fixed. Rather, it can grow or diminish. The damage inflicted on the consumer of pornography lies in the fact that the consumer fails to respond to the demand for care that accompanies the other’s disclosure. The other’s disclosure challenges us to respond. Disclosure does not happen all at once; with trepidation it happens bit by bit, asking whether or not the other actually cares, whether they still care, whether they will go on caring irrespective of what is disclosed.
The consumer of pornography seeks disclosure without care. This kind of relation is intolerable for most people when disclosing themselves, and they turn away when care fails. Knowing this, the consumer of pornography establishes the relation to the other not in the immediacy of the one to one, but mediated via the image. Controlled by the image, denied the ability to speak to show more than is confined by the limit of the image, the one being disclosed is denied her humanity, her infinity. The consumer of pornography seeks intimate relation but rejects the opportunity this offers or demands. His or her capacity to care is diminished.
Byers argues that pornography undermines the creation of valid relationships by placing the image as a mediating force between subject and subject. Whilst seeing the validity of Byers’ argument, his initial claim in the first quote that the reader of pornography primarily attempts to reach a ‘person’ is fundamentally untrue.
Contemporary pornography operates in a converse fashion: it is an escape from interpersonal relationships, not a perverse way of reaching them. The emphasis in pornography is on body parts and scenarios, not people or women. As Byers’ recognises, the individuality of the models is relentlessly undermined: in the familiar positions, make-up, stories, the specific women are gradually effaced, and this effacement/defacement constitutes pornography’s representational violence.
Byers’ seeming assumption that the actual visuality of pornography is unimportant to the reader or viewer is likewise naive. Visuality is a fundamental aspect of psychical fantasy, and the image can stand in for the relation in many aspects of psychic life. Pornography’s use of repetitive images and scenarios is in no way dismissible by simply stating, as Byers does, that it ‘gets in the way’ of a real relation.
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The risk of fragmentation underlies psychoanalytic accounts of the body, whether it is through the ever-absent Phallus, or in recent feminist constructions, through the breast. The ‘body in pieces’ is not simply an aspect of Lacanian theory, it is a structuring principle in the psychoanalytic discipline as a whole. The centrality of narcissism and the mirror stage ensure that, even at their most coherent, psychoanalytic bodies are always other to themselves.
Lanouziere goes onto discuss 'The Tempest' by Giorgione in this context, claiming that the painting depicts both direct and indirect seduction. The watching male figure represents the imagined father of the second primal scene also figured by the lightening and serpent. The positioning of mother and child pre–figures their imminent separation, and the stormy scene emphasises the violence in the primary relation between mother and child. The second primal scene is related to spectatorship. The male figure is the third term of their separation. In the postscript, Lanouziere claims that the painting sublimates the primal scene of breast feeding.
This morning, following on from my reading of Eric Toubiana I am thinking more about the infantile identifications which could provide a prototype for inheritance. 
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